Is it normal to love your girlfriend but don't want sex with her?

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Im 18.I have girlfriend (she is 16) and we been dating almost a year. We we having sex at least 2 times a day! But now I just dont get horny and not interested to have sex with her.I really love her alot and not gonna cheat on her .. it's just can't get horny thinking bout her... BUT when i watch porn or picture her friends naked - IM ON! Is it normal At all???? plz help!!

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  • LightningTechnician
    12 years ago

    Well...I don't know really...can't say the same thing about me. But I guess it is sort of normal if you did the same thing over and over. Try some different stuff, also I'd suggest you two bond a little bit more and talk. Share hobbies with one another. It's not all about sex mate, eventually you'll want her again, you just seem to have lost your drive for now that's fine. Try out some new stuff if that helps talk to each other what gets one another off and stuff like that. Communication is very important you know, share the things with her that turn you on and likewise.

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    • farifari911
      12 years ago

      thanks for advice.. btw i forgot to mention that Im really close to my gf. It's not like we dont talk...we basically know everything about each other.

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  • Infxmous
    12 years ago

    Amd yea i used to think that i woul never cheat on my boyfriend either. But it wasnt like i lost my drive, just once i lost my interest in him that was it, never got it bacK...

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    • farifari911
      12 years ago

      Then what should i Do??? just leave it like that before relation goes down itself??

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      • Infxmous
        11 years ago

        Well i cant 100% give you advice that will work for you so just understand that what im telling you is only from my own experience but you have to choose whats best for you. Ive been in a relationship where my boyfriend wasnt interested in me and it took him over 3 years to break up with me or tell me, and it screwed me up for the rest of my life. That was over 6 years ago and to this day i feel like i need to see a therapist. A guy friend of mine had almost the same situation with a girl and the same outcome. Thats why i think its better to just quit it ASAP, while she may not understand, i think it would be doing the both of you a favor, saving her sanity and your own happiness.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    12 years ago

    Plz be honest with comments and answers... i really wanna know...

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