Is it normal to love your friend?

This is actually how the progression of relationships is supposed to happen, as per the current model. Essentially, the 'Stranger-Dating' leap normal in our culture is thought to be unhealthy for relationships in the long-term.

This is perfectly normal, more normal than most others' relationships.

You do not want to be 'just friends' with him. If you want more, you should go for it. You've got nothing to lose. Except an awkward platonic friendship, maybe.

Same thing is happening to me. If you tell him how you feel he might undertand and feel the same way.

Im glad my feelings are funny to some of you an kind sad u feel the need to put it to something absurd and creepy ...

In all honesty the best chance you have now is just to admit your undying love and devotion to him. Rent out billboards on your local highway and put up pictures of yourself and him, with captions like "Together Forever" and "True Love". This way not only he will know it but the whole surrounding area will as well and this will also clearly mark him as your "territory" so other pushy broads wont even think about approaching him. Its also not outrageous to invite yourself to his family functions introducing yourself to everyone as his "main squeeze", saying "girlfriend" is to formal. "Main Squeeze" gives everyone the idea that you 2 really are in love, which he will eventually come around to. Hiring prostitutes to surprise him at home isnt a bad idea either, because lets face it, you want to make sure he is a happy guy and for those "times of the month" when the "playground" may be closed you dont want him to not feel lonely and go looking elsewhere. Besides this way you can watch.

It sounds like you've been friend-zoned... Or maybe not! ;)

We talk like that but when we meet we spend like rougly about 7 hrs together an at least 1 hr on the phone in general we are not meeting every so oftan ...we dont talk on the phone cuz we see eachother almost every weekend.i dont or havent met a guy that spends that much time with you ,just to see you an talk you about,politics,religion,personal problems he tells me pretty much tells me everything an vice versa.he has also disclosed to me that he has trust issues an that he has a hard time to connect to most women,so thats why i plan on never telling him how i feel i dont want to ruin the friendship or have anything be weired with us ...i was just wondering if anyone else felt conflicted like this hence my original post,i wasnt trying to make myself come off as this person thats so desperate that they will do anything ,they are just an only feelings of uncertainty within myself

Do you both talk that way without stopping?

''Hey did you see that guy the other day yeah I did he is really cool let's hang out at the pizza place ok sounds good bye!"

Yes that's normal. Guys can always sense when you're attracted to to them, and they always feel the same way. He's deeply in love with you, but just hasn't admitted it to himself yet.

To show him how much you love him, I suggest you start being more assertive. Make sure you touch him as often as possible - by "accident", of course - to get him used to intimacy. Introduce yourself to people as his girlfriend, and change your Facebook status to "in a relationship with him"

If he still hasn't admitted to himself that you were made for each other, turn your room into a shrine dedicated to him. Secretly take hundreds of photographs of him and put them on your walls. Steal some of his underwear - guys think that's really hot. When you show him your shrine he will be moved to tears by the depth of your devotion, and will have no choice but to admit his undying love for you.

Don't be at all discouraged by a restraining order - it's just his way of testing the depth of your love.