Is it normal to love your ex

I found out that my wife, who has a daughter with me, cheated on me with five different guys. I hate her for it but i still feel like i love her. Its been six months since i found out and i still cant get over it. I want things to go back how they were but i cant stop thinking about how much of a slut she was. Should i get back with her for my daughter, i really miss my little girl and the best friend i thought i had

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Based on 49 votes (41 yes)
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Comments ( 14 )
  • moomus

    5 guys? Come on, you're worth more than that!

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  • ThisIsNotAUsername

    My mum forgave my father for cheating on her multiple times for us, her children, and he continued to do it throughout their relationship from there on in because something in his mind said that she's always going to forgive him.
    From my personal experience, I would say leave her. Your daughter won't feel less for you and you have to know that.
    I'm not saying that your wife hasn't changed, she may have, I'm only speaking from my personal experience.
    Whatever you decide to do, do it because it feels right to you, not because you feel you have to.

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  • jesusdiedlol

    5 guys? Obviously she didnt learn from her mistakes. Just move on its better for your daughter

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  • cooler

    No way, you should let her go and don't waste time

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  • Energy

    I know exactly how you feel. My ex recently cheated on me 4 times with the same person and they always come running back. In your case it sounds like maybe you could give her another chance.

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  • sunny_wantsome

    how did you come to know she is cheating, may be there is some misunderstanding. Do you have or anything that proves her wrong

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  • jesusdiedlol

    Um what good would that do? Kids understand more than you think they do. If you stick around in an unsatisfying relationship, your kids will think it's ok and they'll be in the same situations in their adult lives! So do yourself and your kid a favor by finding a woman who will treat you riggt

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  • Ramit10

    Depending on daughters age 10-12+ no if she is younger than 10 then try to get back together for your daughters sake.

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  • ariannel

    You love who you love - it's not something you can just stop doing. But loving someone doesnt mean you should be with them. I'd say going back to her would be a bad choice at this time. You can still have a relationship with your daughter. That doesnt have to change.

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  • Shackleford96

    You don't have to forgive your ex wife who cheated, but you should definitely be there for your daughter. She needs you man, be a good father regardless.

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  • Its_Called_Love

    Think of your daughter. She will grow up one day and want to date someone with charactistics of her father. Do you want your daughter to think its okay to cheat? Just saying, I'd leave the woman and go for some kind of custody arrangement so you can see your daughter. Just because she slept around and broke your heart doesn't mean you can't see your kid.

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  • greenhouse

    It's normal that he does but he still shouldn't go back. He'll find someone better.

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  • sunny_wantsome

    All the comments negative but the poll results 100% normal.. What should i be thinking?

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    • Corleone

      It's normal that he still has feelings for her, though he should leave her.

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