Is it normal to love your best friend for so long?

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My best friend and I have been friends for 12 years. I had a crush on him the day I met him, and it began to grow. He didn't return my feelings when I was in 6th grade, he broke my heart and said he liked my other friend. Even then he didn't know my true feelings. The next years, he became more attached to me and was nervous around me. Nowadays, we are older, yet around me he blushes and fidgets around, sometimes having no words to say. He gets jealous when I compare him with other guys who are my friends. It's kinda endearing. He opens up more when he's around me, and he seems so happy. Neither of us had had a boyfriend/girlfriend since the day we met. We were 7 and 6 back then. At age 18 and 19, we still are friends, but I still love him. What should I do? And what does his actions mean?

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  • southernbarbie16
    12 years ago

    You are made for each other. There's no question about it, it's so obvious. Tell him how you feel. I know I don't know the two of you, but I'm positive he feels the same way. Best of luck to you!!

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  • shuggy-chan
    12 years ago

    I pretty sure u know the answer and just want the push towards it so here. *PUSH* go go go tell him and it will all be funny to u later about how long it took u guy to do it

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  • ilurvemyfriends
    12 years ago

    Well, it kind of seems like he is interested in you. Tell him again. You two seem like to be made for each other. Kind of envy you, hahaha ^^ Good luck!

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    • Nippon88
      12 years ago

      Hehe...um...soulmate? (--") um...hehe...maybe... *gulp*

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      • ilurvemyfriends
        12 years ago

        Yeah. seems like it to me.

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  • ygrowup
    12 years ago

    You both seem made for each other, you need to make the next move, because he won't. Good luck with your choices.

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    • Nippon88
      12 years ago

      Thank you for the answers :)...I'm...gonna try...but I'm so shy!!

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