Is it normal to love you gf but still want only action from other girl

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I consider myself to be a pretty good guy and like to think i know right from wrong. But this has been a problem for me for awhile. Ive had a girlfriend for almost 2 years now and i love her to death. We have done everything in the way of sex except we don't makeout and she won't give me head. I still feel extremely attracted to other girls and want sexual things from them often. I always keep telling myself i'm lucky to have my girlfriend and what i get from her but i just can't help but still wanna do things with girls i'm attracted to. Will this all go away when i mature, or will this be a life long issue? And is it normal to feel this way? And is it okay to give into these feelings until i reach that maturing point?

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  • laceandwhatnot
    14 years ago

    I don't know much about this mostly because I am a chick but no one has commented so I'll give you what I got! First, why don't you two make out?? That's a little weird, to me at least. I mean that's where the passion starts for most people in deep making out then things go from there. If you can't passionately kiss someone it doesn't make sense to me how you can really make love. I can see how some people may not do that, but it's something to think about it if you do like making out.

    From what I have heard from guys, getting head is the biggest treat next to getting pussy- sometimes even more of a treat for some men. It seems to me you are lacking something there that really will satisfy you. Which is really really unfortunate for your girl friend & you, of course. Some girls just WILL NOT give head and it's good to be understanding of that. I think it is totally normal to feel the way you do. I wouldn't give into those feelings and act out what you do want with other girls behind your girl friend's back because that is cheating. It is disrespectful and if you're thinking about it, there may be a chance you don't love her like you think you do. It may take some maturing, but until then don't do this to yourself and your girl friend. You are hurting yourself by feeling this way and not doing something about it. You are also hurting her because you are fantasizing about other women and thinking about acting on it.

    What you could do is get a little more kinky with it when you two have sex to make up for the lack of head and try making out- and if that doesn't work it's either time to just get used to it (which most likely won't happen over night) or break up and be fair to you and her. Good luck, hope this helped!!

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