Is it normal to love two people at once

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im torn between husband and lover.husband has never been there for me mentally .there has been alot of cheating between the both of us , starting with him.I'm just finishing it except i have fallen in love with another person.I have 12 years with husband but it has been alot of physical and mental abuse between the both of us and even though its ben 2 months wit this person i feel like i've known him for years and i've never felt this way bout nobody not even husband.This other person tells me he loves me but he's very Cheap and im not use to a cheap man.Its not about money but i want to feel secure and feel loved .What should I do Please Help Me.is it normal To Feel This Way?

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Based on 42 votes (26 yes)
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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Tell me this. Why did you marry this guy in the first place??? And if he doesn't respect you then why are you still married?

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  • twistedmama81
    13 years ago

    It's so easy for others on the outside to look in and say, "Why do you stay??"...until you've been in a situation even remotely close to a shitty marriage, don't judge what another woman does. It's not THAT easy just to walk away...

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    • whatthefuc
      13 years ago

      Thank u twistedmama its nice to know that we have people like you in this world.LOVE YA;)

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  • xxxbeautifullybrokenxxx
    13 years ago

    Ok seriously ditch them both and find a real man to be with. No cheating, no being cheap, and finally be happy!!! Or go with the lover and deal with the cheapness it's better than a cheater!

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    • KimmyKhaos
      13 years ago

      but she is a cheater as well so what does that have to say about the guy who she may leave her husband for? To me if I was the kind of person who believes marriage is about being faithful to that person I wouldnt want to be with someone who left their ex husband for me cause Id always suspect them to cheat on me. You have a bad way of looking at things maybe you should step back and take a better out look on life before you try to help someone with a problem you obviously cant fix. you have no idea what your talking about.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    i didnt even read this i already knew aht to say by looking at the title you dont love any of them becaue "love" is about trust and only loving that one person without that then your just fond of them

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    • whatthefuc
      13 years ago

      I love both but not in love with one

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