Is it normal to love the person that annoyed you in every way?

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I broke up with my girlfriend over a year ago because everything she did just annoyed me for no reason. If another person was to do the same thing though it wouldnt bother me and the last thing i wanted to do was spend time with her.

But a year later i can't stop thinking about her and i know she won't take me back because i was pretty much horrible to her.

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Based on 17 votes (12 yes)
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  • DubstepismyMJ
    12 years ago

    my opinion, is to just move on.
    its just one girl. forget it, u left for a reason.

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  • thecoldhardtruth
    12 years ago

    I think the longer you were single may have brought your standards down a bit , or has just made you lonely enough to grasp at straws, yes this is normal. My advice is to get out and connect with someone new.

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    You can love people but don't like them!

    She annoyed you coz what she did impacted on you, when others do the same stuff, you can shrug them off coz you're not in a relationship with them.

    Move on coz she's an ex for a reason.

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    • bigtoy
      12 years ago

      I agree - I love my girlfriend but she drives me nuts!!!!

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  • Chillpill
    12 years ago

    What would have changed, though? Would the things she did no longer annoy you now? Maybe you're just feeling lonely now, but people usually split up for good reasons.

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