Is it normal to love someone who will never change?

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so i met a man hes a marine.. we were together for 2 months it took me 2 weeks to fall in love with him.. he was already promising me forever and knew all the words to say. then out of know where i dont hear from him.. he starts distancing him self from me.. and of course it was the end. he told me that i brought back memories of his x wife and that he didn't have another relationship in him. he told me he needed time and he didnt want to loose me completly. well its been 5 months and i still cant get him out of my mind my feelings are so strong and i cry almost everyday just thinking about him when a certain country song comes on. he textes me sometimes just to say hi but nothing more. im miserable. its like he wants me there but he dont want to be with me.. how do i move on???

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  • Fartyr
    13 years ago

    LEAVE. Personality traits are consistent over time, yours and theirs. Don't try to change people, it's mean and bad for everyone involved.

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  • sexycleangirl
    14 years ago

    It happened to me too, and I cried every day. My guy wouldn't change his bad habits, and just remembering the bad about him is finally helping me feel better.

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  • leahquestions
    14 years ago

    patience with him, he's not ready to commit. start getting involved in hobbies or sports . keep yourself busy and date eventually.. sounds like he just wants friendship and that's it. 2 weeks isn't enough to know someone, it really takes a couple of years and usually they're not as interesting as you initially thought

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  • zackman5000
    14 years ago

    You need to confront him about it PERIOD. Tell him if is with you or not because it is ether you with this guy or not he should not be leading you on for no reason.

    This sketchy behavior could mean and this is definite could that he might be seeing someone else. You need to hold it together you don't need someone to make you feel happy. Just stay strong no matter what the result is. Hope this works out for you, good luck. =)

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