Is it normal to love someone who is ditched by someone ?

Is it good to love some one ... who is ditched by someone and now after knowing everything ...she tells you that she dont wanna continue as because she cant provide the same amount of love ...you really deserve ...she tells me she likes me as a person ...but not as a lover ...now she told me that not to contact her .

so friends tell is it good to continue loving her or shall i stop ...however I cant stop loving her as I truly love her

still am I doing good or bad ...should I contuinue or not

pls respond .

search for some one else 10
yes 3
no 1
get a new girl friend 7
convience her 4
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  • NeuroNeptunian

    Look for someone else. I have been in the situation where a guy really "loves" me and I did not love him in that way. I told him this and he kept persuing me, and eventually I cut it off with him.

    Let her go man, plenty o'fish in the sea.

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    • sanjumaity

      Thanks pal ... I am trying to forget her now ...but cant ...lets try

      Thanks for your help .

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  • dietcoke

    If she doesn't see you as her ideal, there is no point in trying to impress her. Perhaps imagine the relationship the other way round, that someone you have no feeling for says she loves you, then you may understand why.

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    • sanjumaity

      Thanks pal ... I am trying to forget her now ...but cant ...lets try

      Thanks for your help .

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