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I was with this guy for awhile and we had lots of problems but we did love eachother or if it wasn't love it was very close . Even though I treat him bad and he treated me bad in different ways .. Is it werid to still love him ?
What a lot of people don't realize is that love and compatibility are two different things. Love alone will not make for a successful relationship. You can love someone, but if the two of you are not compatible, the relationship will probably turn into what you two had.
That said, just because the two of you were not compatible and did not have the interpersonal or conflict management skills necessary to handle each other's unique emotional needs, does not mean that you did not love each other. Relationships don't always work. That's life.
It's perfectly normal to love someone that you had a piss poor relationship with. One of the unfortunate and scary things about dating is that no matter how much you love the person, who they are, what they do and their character, if the two of you just don't work, you just don't work.
I hope you are able to reconcile your feelings one day and find someone that you are compatible with. You have quite a bit of people to choose from ;)
It's normal to feel like that but that's not love and you know it if you have to second guess your relationship with that person and really ask yourself that question. It's not love and . And you have to grow a pair and move on I did it and I felt the same way you feel but once two or three weeks go by your heart will stop feeling like it hurts you would stop thinking bout this person and you will feel 1000 times better .
Yeah, it's normal. But real hardcore love comes from two people treating eachother well and having minimal problems, so get out of that relationship fast, you're blinded by love, or potentially lust.
Love is not rational. Two people can love each other without being able to sustain a relationship.
I don't know if it's normal, but it's important to have a healthy life where your mind isn't still focused on this guy. Like it's important to think about him a little, but just a little.