Is it normal to love someone that doesn't even know you?

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Theres this guy that i saw at a track meet. Hes gorgeous. Let me get this straight. Hes tall, muscular, nice build. Handsome. At first i liked him because of his looks.. then being the stalker that i am, i found out his name, searched him up on facebook and tried to see what kind of person he is. And hes perfect for me! Hes ambitious, respects girls, just perfect.. for me at least. And now.. i think i... love him. No maybe i like him a lot.. but still. He doesnt even know me, and ive only seen him twice in my life, and im taken over by this strong feeling. Is it normal to feel like this about someone who doesnt know you,

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  • dappled
    11 years ago

    Well, you could try to get yourself noticed by him and see what happens.

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals
    11 years ago

    Why don't girls ever "stalk" me? :-(
    Oh right, I'm short and not muscular.

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  • alv1592
    11 years ago

    Try getting to know him. You never know what could happen. Good luck!

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  • NormaLeeSane
    7 years ago

    If you're about 13 or so, it's completely normal - it's called "infatuation." If you're an adult, then you have some problems, and should probably seek professional help.

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  • KeddersPrincess
    11 years ago

    Welcome to my world. Never had a bf, but I always fall for the ones that aren't attainable. If it bothers you, try going to another track meet and talking to him again, but if you are too nervous, don't make it a habit of following him. This happened to me once, and the guy literally almost put a restraining order on me. Figures! But I'd try getting to know him in person, and who knows, maybe it might start something special :)

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  • theabider
    11 years ago

    I went through the same thing. Met a perfect guy. Tall, handsome, sporty, intelligent, thoughtful, friendly, blond, blue eyed, charmer. Only saw him a couple times, spoke to him once. Tracked him down on fb. Found out he had a gf... :( I still think about him though...ik, it's pathetic.

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    I met my boyfriend back waayyy back in highschool in cafeteria class, he was soooo shy he barely said a word to me, so I barely knew him as well, but I fell for him right away :) He was just tooo cute. So I say it's normal. He obviousky liked me back, cause he's my boyfriend. So I'd feel things out and see if maybe he likes you back?

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  • chicken_wings
    11 years ago

    obsesssseeddddddd

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  • 16_teen
    11 years ago

    its normal as i feel same for a girl.
    you like him a lot. its not love, not yet anyways.
    you should approach casully like a friend, let him like you.
    (drop something near him deliberately & ask for help).

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