Is it normal to love someone so much who i've never even met?

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I've been in two serious relationships in my life, one that lasted 6 months and the one I'm in now that is currently lasted 7 months.

The first turned out to be a complete jerk, but I'm really in love with the man I'm with now. He's nearly everything I ever wanted in a person, but I have a re-occouring problem....

I'm hopelessly in love with Bobby Darin!

It started when I was 14 years old. I saw him, read a couple biographies and I been hooked ever since.

He sort of sexually awakened me. I had my first orgasm to one of his performances and he inspired me to continue my film career when it was running dry.

Since that time every story I've ever written or novel finished, or movie script written has got something to do with him.

He's my muse and I have read everything I can get my hands on about him. Including all his bios and articles on the official site.

I identify with his struggles, his illness as I've got one of my own and career wise we seem to share exact views.

Even in his flaws I love him and them. He's been my first for nearly everything and now that I'm with someone else I just can't help thinking the one for me, I mean the true one for me is long since passed.

Is it normal to be this in love with someone I've never met?

I just feel somehow we're connected and he's one of the main reasons I didn't date for so long.

Is it normal? Or does anybody feel the same way I do about someone else in the spotlight or Bobby Darin?

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  • ChokeCherryRed
    13 years ago

    I'm not sure how "normal" this is, but I will tell you that it's like this for me with Jim Morrison. I think that maybe...I don't know...sometimes life gets in the way of who we're supposed to be, or who we're supposed to be with. For example, I was born 12 years to the day to the minute after Jim's girlfriend, Pamela, died. I don't think that's a coincidence. How could it be? Sometimes...life is stranger than fiction.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    That happens to me with Kurt Cobain and Metallica(I dont love them like you love Bobby). And I'm a guy so that'll be gay. But anything I can read of them I TOTALLY do. And any song I make has a lil' Nirvana or Metallica spice. It doesnt perfectly sounds like them(that IS impossible) but it sounds like something they would do. And that's for guitar, but songwriting is a diferent story.

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