Is it normal to love someone on and off?

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Okay so i have been dating this guy for 4 months but then he moved out of the country coz of work and his family. i didnt want to do long distance and he got upset but we still love eachother (well thats what he tells me) I want to love him back but i dont find it going anywhere. sometimes when we talk he will be heaps nice and i will absolutely adore him but then when im at school and he's not with me i feel myself flirting with other guys, and not loving him as much.

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  • joelsmo
    13 years ago

    You may think you love him, but you don't. When true love calls you will know it, it won't be on and off.

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  • JoeyAnne
    13 years ago

    Any guy can make you feel loved. It sounds like you're young. I say this is normal and that you could probably do well without him. If he loved you, he'd consider how you feel and that he can't give you what you want since he's out of the country. If it was at least a year since you've been together, I'd understand why you'd stay with him. If you had stayed with him that long, you'd probably not feel the way you do. Chances are, you don't really love him.

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  • lipslikesugar101
    13 years ago

    Yeah well i am only 15 if thats what you call young and, well i dont really know what to do coz he is coming back to see me for a whole week when he could be in Italy with his family. So i feel bad if i do anything now :( Plus i really do care about him... Im just not sure if its love or if i just really like him... =/ But yeah, it was a really good answer :) thanks

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  • Ldizzy1234
    13 years ago

    I like what JoeyAnne said. Great answer!

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