Is it normal to love someone no matter what they say or do to you?

I was taken advantage of over the summer. We went out for a while and then they dumped me after telling me they really cared and liked me. It has been 6 months and I still haven't fully recovered. I would do anything to win them back. We are still friends and hang out but I am truly in love and I know it's totally wrong. How can I stop this???

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  • equanimity

    When I love, I love wholeheartedly too. But once I realize that I'm being taken advantage of, I have no problems letting go.

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  • Hollyjj

    Aaaaaah it keeps submitting!!!!!! Anyway I asked her to ask him if he still likes me and she said he said he moved in I still live him so much and I had so much plans for when he came to visit but those are all smashed bow and my heart aces so much!!! But my advise is to just get in with you're life and try to forget about this guy because if it is Gods will to keep you together than he will

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  • Hollyjj

    To tell him that I like him and he told his friends to tell me that he liked me so when he left I texted him slot and so did one of my friends and one day she told me that she asked him if he still likes me and he said yes! I was so happy but a few days later I asked her to ask h

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  • Hollyjj

    Found out that he was moving away u was devastated so I told one of my friends

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  • Hollyjj

    I have a similar story in school there was this boy who I had a huge crush on since grade 3 he was my really good friend till grade 6 and one day I fo

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  • I had a friend who had a similar experience with a guy. She dressed slutty to win the guy back but that didn't work and I don't suggest you do that. Instead I suggest not seeing the boy again. The more you're around him, the more your feelings will grow. Stay away from him.

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  • Nomster!

    Deal with it. Learn from your mistakes. It's hard yes. But i've gotten over my old bitch of a gf. Yes, a bitch.

    He dosent deserve you! Find a man that can take you and actually wants a relationship.

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