Is it normal to love someone in only 3 days?

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So, I met this boy online last tuesday(today is the following tuesday), we went out for lunch thursday, and lunch turned into talking together all day. On friday we texted all day, and he told me how much he really enjoyed the day before and wanted to see me again. So on saturday I went to his house, and met his entire family, and spent the whole day with them, we spent alot of time alone talking, and I totally felt like he was perfect for me, and he said the same things. It was/is such a deep connection, like nothing i have ever felt. Not the infatuated cant wait to see you again feeling, more like we belong together feeling. Since then we have spent almost every day together, He tells me im his soulmate, and that he loves me and wants to marry me, its been a week, but I feel the exact same way about him. I don't know if I can even explain it, its like i've known him a million years. Is this normal? I am 20 and he is 22

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  • Comm0nSense
    13 years ago

    you're obviously a crazy psycho bltch

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  • CUNTS_TWATS
    7 years ago

    Its called love at first sight.
    Have you seen his boner cock in person yet ?

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  • mumbum
    12 years ago

    ^ very sweet!! I agree to go with it. You are kindred spirits.. Just don't have babies yet, or get married. It is great you are talking all the time..:)

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  • BirdyMojo
    13 years ago

    Slow down, Speedy O_O

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    how is it not normal can i ask? if you feel deeply in love with him and have feeling for him that you havent had for anyone else, want to look perfect for him want to impress him all the time and reallt truely think he is perfect then yes you may be in love and it is possible to find love in 3 days(: x

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  • jasonapple
    13 years ago

    It sounds cool, just don't actually get married Britney style and then get divorced.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Love knows no age, time, or limit. It is perfectly normal<3.

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  • BOYracer88
    13 years ago

    just go with the flow and see what happens, life is like a bowx of chowcolates lol

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  • Passionate
    14 years ago

    its not normal, unless youre the exception. the problem is, your not.

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  • loviex102
    14 years ago

    Totally not normal...weird.

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  • bazwell
    14 years ago

    Slow it down!
    You and him have known each other for a very short time...an extremely short time, when compared with the alternative you hint at with marriage.

    Relationships, how you feel about people etc all change with time. So, even though you both have strong feelings about each other at the moment, as time passes by, and the circumstances change, you will learn more about each others' core values and this may change how you feel about them.

    My suggestion is that you continue to enjoy this new relationship in all its novelty. Try not to make any life commitments (such as marriage or kids) for "some" time. Later, when you know more about this person (and yourself), you may want to take things further and will have the wisdom of time on your side.

    best of luck to you

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