Is it normal to love some one morethan our selves?

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hi all, am 24 years old,I love someone so much that I even forgot that I exist, I go mad when I cant see him for a longer time, when he speaks to a little ok then my day is wonderful,though he tells me that he loves me,but I could clearly see he is avoiding me,the love is so ture and after he stoped caring about me also I stil do,I wonder why? tried to turn my self and not to disturb him, but cant control myself! help

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  • legendary27
    13 years ago

    Maybe you should center all of your focus onto something like work or school or a hobby or something. The more your mind is onto something else the less you'll be thinking about this person. You should always love yourself and respect yourself more than a boyfriend or ex boyfriend, whatever your situation is.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    13 years ago

    Love means loving someone else more than yourself.

    However what you describe ISN'T loving him more than yourself. What you described is obsession.

    Especially since he is "clearly" avoiding you. It sounds like your desire for him is smothering and scaring him away.

    Although I know you don't want to do it... leaving him alone is probably the best thing for you. You can't force him to want you back the same way. Eventually he'll get tired of it and will give up on trying to be nice about it. And believe me, that hurts more than what you're feeling now.

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  • thebuddah
    13 years ago

    Try reading some self help book. There is no one you should love more than yourself

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  • jensapa
    13 years ago

    U appear a bit obsessed to me. Maybe u turned him off. Sorry!

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