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I like my girlfriend, but I love her bestfriend, she was my first love but she rejected me a few years back. Now I'm going out with her bestfriend but I still love her, is it normal, and what should I do?!
If you're dating one girl while you love another... then you're not being fair to your girlfriend.
SHE could be dating someone who really loves her... but right now she's with you. And you're holding on to her ... why?
yes there's a risk that if you dump her for the friend... the friend might not take you back
But... why should your girlfriend be the one to pay that price? It's up to you to take action instead of using her to keep away the loneliness.
Yikes! Tough situation you got yourself there. So you probably started going with her best friend in hopes to get closer to the other girl, right?
If you don't like her like that, don't waste your time. Break up, because either way, when & if she finds out, its gonna hurt her. Just steer clear of them both.
Good one. Your going out with a girl to get to her friend - an oldie but a goodie
Her best friend will never give you a second chance while you're with her best mate! That's a big mistake! You might be prepared to hurt your gf but her mate won't.
Give up your gf and give it some time and you never know... you may get back with the one you love eventually.
Good luck.
You should probably break up due to the fact that you love her friend and not her.
You're wasting both of your time by staying together when you could be with the one you love and she could find someone to love her.
Yeah, not to be rude but you are being selfish by dating this girl if you don't really love her. Even if you say you love her, the fact that you love her friend more means that you really don't love your girlfriend. She's just a substitute, which is not fair for her. You strike me as a romantic type of guy and it'll probably be hard for you to break up with your girlfriend on principle, especially if you like spending time with her. But basically you are doing her an injustice by not allowing her to move on with her life and find someone who is right for her.