Is it normal to love my girlfriend but want to end it one day.

I love her but I'm just not ready to settle down. Its more because I want to be with other girls and I'm not done experimenting.

I feel bad for this but thats just how I feel... is it normal??

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81% Normal
Based on 73 votes (59 yes)
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Comments ( 7 )
  • RoseIsabella

    It sounds like you probably love her but you're just not in love with her. If you were really in love then you wouldn't be looking to experiment. I assume ya'll are probably really young anyway.

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    • Jake19UK

      Yeah, thats how I feel. And I'm 19. I love her so much but for example, our first kiss was 'alright' but no sparks.

      Thanks for the comment.

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  • tralalalalala

    Better to break things off now if that's how you feel. If she loves you too, then it'll only hurt all the more if you wait. It's completely normal to want to experiment and see what else is out there, but don't lead her on, ya know?

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  • kit-kat-bar

    It's better to break up now then cheat on her or stay with her and feel like you are missing out on something. It is very good that you are trying to make the right decision, and trust me she will move on.

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    • Jake19UK

      I would NEVER cheat on anyone. Just wanna make that clear. And I dont want to break up with her yet. I Love her and we have such a great time together. She's the best girlfriend I've had so far... But yeah, I do feel like im missing out abit. Like me and some friend went on holiday, they was having 'fun' with girl and I couldn't (and didn't) do anything. So yeah, I do feel like im missing out. :/

      Thanks for your comment :)

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  • Tellidall

    Pretty normal.

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  • Paradiddle

    Sounds very normal to me even though its disappointing. I believe its possible to love your girlfriend as a person but for some reason, just not be into her anymore. If you really aren't and there isn't a way to rekindle anything then don't draw it out and pretend, I'd say.

    "Not done experimenting" sounds odd though, as if you're producing some chemical reaction based on the various girls you could date over x amount of time, haha. Just my thoughts having fun though, don't be alarmed.

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