Is it normal to love my friend, but love her bf more?

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i love my friend (lets call her E) to death. shes bubbly and sweetand beautiful an smart. she's one of my best friends. she has this boyfriend though, who isnt even super hot smart and definitely not nice. i LOVE this guy. E seems to be oblivious since when im around the pair he's anything but nice to me. when we're alone, though, i get the vibe that he likes me. when we're alone, he's ssuuuppppeeerrrr sweet to me. i dont want to do anything because i love E, i just love jer bf more. can anyone relate?

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  • justsomgirl
    14 years ago

    He is your friend's boyfriend. Stay away from him. He's not worth your friendship unless you really don't care about her as much as you say you do.

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  • violetgrape
    12 years ago

    seems like you are jealous of your friend,maybe having her boyfriend want you will make you feel like you are better than her,hence the thrill.it seems you wouldn't think of him this way if he wasn't your girlfriends boyfriend. its normal but its bitchy as hell

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  • socialbutterfly
    13 years ago

    I would tell "E" about it. hopefully she will understand.

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  • lalaforthehaha
    13 years ago

    Bros before hoes, mates before dates

    a saying as old as time, don't do it

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  • Gabriell
    13 years ago

    IF HE DUMPS HER WHY NOT SUMP YOU LATER ON FOR SOMEONE ELSE? AND YES, YOU WILL HAVE ALSO SCREWD YOUR FRIRNDSHIP.

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  • Complex4
    13 years ago

    does ur best friend know about her bf's changing colours towards u when she is absent ...mayb u should tell ur best friend about ur feelings for him.. she might understand coz shes ur best friend rightO_o coz if u continue with this shes gonna bcome ur best enemy for sure ...

    AND about her super sweet bf...hes probably playing around >_>...

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  • Scrat
    13 years ago

    Have sex with both in one time :D

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  • Comm0nSense
    13 years ago

    self control my ass you won't be able to. just avoid putting yourself in that situation in the first place bc I guarantee you you are heading for a drama train wreck

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  • ruralfrights
    13 years ago

    This is where self- control is necessary, not just virtuous. Don't lose a possible life-long friend to a fleeting fling. Then you've lost both sides

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  • ReiM.0921
    13 years ago

    It is normal but if you really love your best friend you would try to stay away from being alone from him

    If those vibes are true then what will happen if he breaks her heart and goes with you? What are the chances that that might happen to you to?

    Boyfriends may come and go but true best friends stay togther forever

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  • TalkAndTouch
    14 years ago

    Sure this guy IS her boyfriend.

    Now it is YOUR DECISION - - are you ready to take a chance and flirt with him?

    BUT..... if you DONT want to do anything, keep your legs crossed and look the other way.

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