Is it normal to love him this much even tho i cheated?

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I cheated on my boyfriend less than a month ago, and I deeply regret it. He knows about it , and since he is so amazing he told me that it's airing as long as I still love him and regret it. But what I'm asking, is it normal to love him SO much? Like he is the reason I live, he is the only thing I think about and i dream of him almost every night. He means absolutely everything to me and I can't imagine trying to live without him.. Every minute away from him is horrible and when I'm with him it feels like my life is complete and everything is how it is soposed to be... Is it normal to feel so strongly for him even though I cheated?

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  • moomus
    12 years ago

    If you loved him you wouldn't have cheated

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    • IceEye22
      11 years ago

      True, but its still possible.

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  • jussayin
    12 years ago

    boo, you whore.
    (Mean Girls)

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    • jusssayin2
      12 years ago

      well said girlllll

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  • istrawberry
    12 years ago

    How can you say you love him THAT much and still cheat? You don't deserve him. Just let him go. He deserves happiness with someone else. You have no right to say you love him.

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  • Tisgranum
    12 years ago

    It's normal to love him even though you cheated but not acceptable to cheat on someone you love.

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  • Neekyostic
    12 years ago

    Yeah that happened to me too year ago. The hasnt passed without me thinking about her after that. She gave me countless chances i never took em seriously..

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Should of had a V8. You must ''truly love him'' to do something like that. If I were him, I'd ask you to never talk to me again.

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  • Solophonic
    12 years ago

    How could you possibly cause pain to someone like that. I don't think yo love him as much as you just desperate need someone to love you.

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    • pixie_dust
      12 years ago

      she's spoiled and selfish... thats why

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  • petawawacouple69
    12 years ago

    Your just a whore, it's normal. You were probably drinking and had a guy pay attention to you and you spread your legs for him. Very common. You have low self esteem. But don't worry, everyone wants to sleep with other people, if you don't want to your not normal, it's natural human behavior to have urges. The difference between people who cheat and don't cheat are the non cheaters aren't mentally weak. Cheaters can't stop themselves. It doesn't mean you don't love your bf or gf. For people that are to weak to say no to a random peace of ass when your with someone else, just don't put yourself in situations where you'll cheat. It's like putting an alcoholic in a locked room full of booze he's gonna drink, all addictions are stemmed from mental weakness, and it grows to a disease. Be strong and say no to random penis.

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    • FerrisBeuller85
      12 years ago

      LOL OMG THATS FUCKING FUNNY!! Your too right tho man, she is just a slut cus shes mentally weak.

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  • megadriver
    9 years ago

    If I was your boyfriend, I would dump you.
    You are mentally weak. If you cheated once, chances are you will probably cheat again.
    You say you love the guy THAT much, yet you cheat.
    Don't you think your boyfriend feels like crap, having a woman that loves him oh so much, sleep with someone else.
    You are just desperate for being loved by him, not loving him.

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  • sparky555
    12 years ago

    its normal. ive done it. but i still regret it to this day and its been three years

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  • shade_ilmaendu
    12 years ago

    Petawawa pretty much said everything that needs to be, that was really well put, and blunt to the point of I lol'd. :)

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  • moomus
    12 years ago

    ^^^^well said

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  • ygrowup
    12 years ago

    You need to look inward and figure out what you really want, before either of you get hurt worse! Good luck with your choices

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  • gloomydust
    12 years ago

    Sometimes cheating teaches you something. Or helps you realize how much you love this person and what you did to them.

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