Is it normal to love and hateeeee my bf !?!!

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I meet my bf 4 yrs ago since the beginning we love each other alot, like born to be together. the first years he used to have a bad attitude he used to treat me bad sometimes there was two times that he was abusive and one time he cheated on me. I left him for a year .. Now we are back since a year ago, he told me he changed for good and I can notice it but still I don't forget all the bad things that he done to me in the past and even do he is greeeeeeeat now . There are days that I hated him so much and wish he was dead or something :S
I love him so much because since we reunited he has done nothing bad to me .... But still sometimes the past it's in my headdddd !!!
Any advice or tips someone that have ever feel like me :)
thank you !

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    If he was an asshole when you first knew him, I have no pity on you for deciding to be with someone you yourself could identify as an asshole.

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  • Navilluschizo
    11 years ago

    What a bastard for cheating on and abusing you. I'm sorry that happened. I don't blame you for the hatred because of that aspect.

    In my opinion if you see a honest change and you know that you love him, then of course. I believe I would love and hate my girlfriend if she did that to me but was still that loving person I know.
    I believe if I were in your position I could possibly love/hate him..

    Complicated.

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  • kit291
    11 years ago

    OK then, there are far to many grammar mistakes for me to even begin to correct. So moving on.

    If he's hurt you that much then what would stop him from doing it again. If he could hurt you in the first place then he clearly didn't see how much it was hurting you so he could do it again and not even care.
    Yeah some people can change and if you truly believe that then you'll do fine. i don't hate my bf but he gets on my nerves sometimes that's the way it is. you can't get along with someone 24/7. it's not how life works.

    Hope this helps.

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  • FJK_frm_AK25
    8 years ago

    Kick his ass

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  • lisigiel
    11 years ago

    that may be true !! but I will give my 100% and if he fails again. it's his lost and no more chances anymore, I promise to myself :)

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  • Lia
    11 years ago

    Once a cheater always a cheater

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  • lisigiel
    11 years ago

    that's a great idea About going to counseling :) ! I'm going to try it! cuz I did try it but only for myself :/
    Thanks :)

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    go to counselling together, have this thing out and rid yourself of bad feelings , goodluck..btw if he doesnt want to go , grow away from him

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    "hateeeee"

    You like to give him lots of hats?

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  • sYki
    11 years ago

    "Tigers do not change their stripes"

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  • lisigiel
    11 years ago

    yes that's true .. I ll be careful

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  • shinshins
    11 years ago

    It may be good now but the seconde you tick him off you'll wake up In a hospital bed

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  • davesumba
    11 years ago

    leave him.

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  • Energy
    11 years ago

    I'm the same way. Forigve but don't forget.

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