Is it normal to love and hate a person at the same time?

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I feel lost in my mind sometimes.. There's a girl that ive fallen head over heels for, but sometimes I just can't stand her. The situation is like this- I'm 18 and single, she's 17 and has a boyfriend. We talk 24/7 and she tells me that she loves me more than anything else in the world. When we hangout, she goes further into saying she wants to break up with her boyfriend. All of this makes me happy and all, but then I creep on her facebook and I see that she writes to him that she loves him so much and that she wants to be together forever. I understand that I'm not her boyfriend but I dint know what to believe! Am I simply getting played because she likes the attention or does she really care about me? It would be greatly appreciated for advice!

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  • Trismegistus
    13 years ago

    Find yourself another girl.Those things end badly.

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  • penguin10
    13 years ago

    She probably likes both her boyfriend and you. Also, love and hate aren't opposites, love and indifference are.

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  • TheW1fey
    13 years ago

    I say she likes you both and has a hard time choosing between you guys. But for the sake of ur own feelings and heart break, I think it's time for you to move on.

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