Is it normal to love a teenage girl

is it normal that i cant stop thinking about her, i love her more than everything, she will be 17 soon and im 21
and im ready to wait for her, we were into relationship for like a month she loved me but now she wants me to get over her cuz she thinks its not normal i cant forget about her,i see her all the time but now we are like strangers which burns a hell out of me.
what should i do ?

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Based on 140 votes (103 yes)
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Comments ( 18 )
  • Deadpoo

    HI im chris hanson from dateline NBC why dont you sit down and have a cookie.

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  • imjustme

    My mom is four years older than my dad. Try to convince her, but dont push her to much (girls hate that). Good luck!

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  • GothBabe

    The age diff is no big thing. My guy is 4.5 years older than me. Tell her how you really feel, and offer to give her some space. Hopefully she comes around.

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  • nackss31

    I dont think the age difference is that bad but she's still pretty young. I say back off a bit, be friends; wait. because if you push her you can creep her out and get in some serious trouble with her family (which is probably the issue already) Just give it time and eventually one of two things will happen; shell come around or youll just get over it. Either way its win-win.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    She told you to get over her.

    There's your answer. If you pursue her then you can be brought up on charges of stalking - not to mention charges relating to her being a minor.

    No means no, even if you don't like it.

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  • corrections:go for it and works out for you

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  • wow people have screwed up and wrong definitions of a pedophile a pedophile is an adult who has sex with little kids not 17 year olds thats why the dictionary exists look it up he isnt a pervert.also dont insist with her she wont necessarily hate you she might just be mad it really depends on the girl not girls themselves. if you start insisting she may or may not care tell her something like i can wait until you and me are both legal and if she accepts it then gof ro it and tell her how much you care about her but dont do it in a creepy way do it in a way she well really like and if it worls go out you are officially keeping her.

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  • Ambivalance

    Im with funguy on this one. age isnt really the issue here. Just respect her desires and move on.

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  • cassiewa

    My dad is almost exactly 10 years older then my mom. Unless she really isn't interested anymore, I would go pursue that relationship

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  • FunGuy

    Very normal at your age.

    But move on. Girls generally get really turned off when guys are clingy.

    If you go out and have fun she might see the part of you she was initially attracted to and want you back.

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  • pritty scary on this one i have too say not normal...

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  • nuttabutta

    You pedafile get a life

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  • sexyitalian

    Ull be that creepy teacher who rapes her

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  • mtnw

    the age difference is no big thing, but she is so very young. if she isn't interested, then she isn't. sorry

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  • thanx Bobert
    yeah i better take it slow and just be friends for now

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  • Bobert

    I agree with Moose, just leave her alone. She has told you she is not interested and if you keep bothering her you'll just come across as desperate and clingy. You'll end up creeping her out and it'll just push her away even more.

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  • MooseEyes

    I hate to tell you this dude, your done.

    Move on, don't bug her, or she will hate you forever.
    Men don't cry over girls they could have had!
    Man up!, move on, and let her think about the man she could have had...ok?

    Good luck.

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    • ComboBreaker

      You are so wrong about men not crying over girls. It's absolutly natural for a guy to cry over a girl. Men have ruind their lives for women, killed for women. Men may move on but there is always the girl that got away.

      OP, talk to her one last time to convince her it's normal. If she still refuses then her mind is made. Sorry.

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