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I'm in love with a married man
He is married and have 3 kids but he doesn't live with his wife , he left his wife. he asked me to marry him and I really love him but the problem is that my parents disagree . They think its wrong . But It seems right to me. What should I do I don't want to have problems with my parents .
It is quite common, but really stupid to get involved w/ a married man. Wait until he is divorced before you make any decisions.
How old are you? Do you really want to start your married life w/ 3 kids? That is insanity and I can assure you that if he cheated on his wife & 3 kids with you, he will do the same to you.
Run like hell and don't look back!
It is a volatile and potentially painful situation you are in. You could very likely have your heart broken. He may stay married permanently. It does happen. Remember Katherine Hepburn. You could potentially spend years in the shadows of his life loving him and hoping for change only to find, in the end, all of your love was in vain.
It is best to avoid the situation altogether if possible, but if you find yourself in this predicament, you are not alone. There are situations like these that do work out, contrary to popular conjecture, each situation is unique, but you must assess the emotional risks you are undertaking and be realistic about them if at all possible.
I know you love this man but the question is: can you take his lids as your own and are you ready for this pressure?