Is it normal to love a lot and be obsessed

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i have been in love with a guy for 2 years..i had a previous relationship which was a failure since that guy cheated on me...the present guy was so affectiinate and loving and caring over me so i accepted his proposal...but now we get a lot of problems...i feel that he does not love me like i do or care for me like before...im always obsessed with him that i keep thinkin of him always...i feel like he should do wat i think and advice a lot like his wife...but he feels really uncomfortable and feels like i am troubling him and dont understand him...but i love him lot...im so sensitive as well as emotional wen he speaks harsh i cry a lot...i feel like something paining in my body and get a seviere head ache...i dont know y im like this...im stressing myself lot...i love him lot ...wen we fight and i cry he doesnot feel for me...he says y you are always crying and cut the call...i really dont know whether am becomin mad...pls i need to get out of this obsessed state...pls help me

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  • seali001
    12 years ago

    He is either cheating or very immature..leave him alone! You deserve to be with a man that feels the same way you do..Don't think for a second that you are ever going to change him with your love..ain't gonna happen...

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  • LOUi_CUDi
    12 years ago

    lol idk y but i like you story a lot. I guess it rembinds me wen i was 14.. Idk but u should make a move or ask him that if he likes..

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  • DavidD
    12 years ago

    Ummm, I didn't read this ALL, but it sounds like you've got a lot...of drama. . . so what is seems. . . like to me.... lot . . . is that you're really clingy lot. . .

    So lets break this down starting from the bottom:
    "wen we fight and i cry he doesnot feel for me...he says y you are always crying and cut the call"

    Well obviously you cry too much! He obviously doesn't think it's cute.

    "but he feels really uncomfortable and feels like i am troubling him and dont understand him"

    Have you ever heard the phrase, "It's not me, it's you." Well, this is appropriate in this situation. You're like a baby, and babies are troubling. They're always whining about the simplest things, drooling all over you, and pissing on you when you try to change their diapers. So instead of yelling at you, he's making up a phony excuse to spare your feelings.

    "I feel like he should do wat i think and advice a lot like his wife"

    Listen, everything's not all about YOU! We are born with free choice and free will and can make our own decisions. Even if he was your husband, he does NOT have to do everything you want to do, just 'cause you said to.

    So here's your main problem: You're controlling. You seem to think that your head was at the center of the big bang and now all the universe revolves around it. I'm sorry if you don't think that's the case but it is. Fortunately there's a solution, unfortunately the solution is not always permanent.

    Step 1) Call Jerry Springer
    Step 2) Entertain America
    Step 3) ????
    Step 4) Profit!

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    The general advice is that when a relationship starts to hurt, get out of it! You are supposed to be making each other happy, not miserable. Pull back a little and give him some space, it sounds like he's bored with you crying like a baby and clinging to him.

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