Is it normal to love a guy this much.

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Okay so, right now it is the 1st of november 2011. I am a female. I met a guy on the internet in march of this year, we've talked every day since that day and we have been acting like we're going out, in a way.
We don't tell people because we have never met, but we plan too make it a real relationship when we do.
He broke up with me about four weeks ago, but then one week ago he told me he wanted me back. I was so happy, he's all i thought about for those three weeks.
Last night he told me things have been fucked for a long time, and he doesn't wanna be together anymore. I cried more then i ever have, even over guys i have actually met.
He told me he wants to be friends with benefits, but i disagreed because i don't wanna be used by him. Even though i have feelings for him i've never had for anyone else.
He makes me happier than i've ever been,
I can't even begin to explain how he makes me feel. It's crazy. He's always on my mind.

Is it normal to be this obsessed with a guy that i have never met, and lives about an hour and fourty minutes on the train from me?
Baby i hope you read this :( i hope you know how much i miss you.
please give me honest opinions.

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  • dwe
    12 years ago

    You've never met in person?? He's probably 40 and a child molester. Be careful!

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  • cannibus14
    12 years ago

    I understand it's so hard to see this because I'm sure you're actually in love, but this guy is not very nice. He broke up with you, assumed you would come right back (which you did), broke up with you again, and asked if you would have sex with him anyways. YOU DESERVE BETTER. He probably likes the feeling of being mean because it makes him feel cool and powerful, and you're letting him get away with it (but good job saying no to friends with benefits). I guarentee you that if you completely ignore him he'll go crazy! He'll definitely want you back, but please please please say no.

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  • carebear123
    12 years ago

    This sounds like an intro to “To Catch A Predator”

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  • thatstrangegirl
    12 years ago

    Love is love. Whether you met on the internet, at a bar, at college, it doesn't matter. However, the guy you've fallen for is a total jerk that doesn't treat you well at all, leave now before you get more hurt.

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  • Aiimee
    12 years ago

    Okay. So.
    Before we sort of had a thing, when we were just talking, we were both going too the same concert, we didn't end up talking too eachother but when i was walking too the train station i saw him crossing the street, i know it was him because of pictures, blah blah blah. He turned around and saw me and waved, but i had too go or i'd miss my train.
    So i know he's who he says he is, not a pedofile. But thanks for everyones concerns.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    lol all I have to say to this post is don't be a psycho and meet someone in real life.....then be a psycho

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    they met on aol instant messenger. she has never seen a picture of him, and he regularly sends her pictures of his dick. he tells her that while he's masturbating, she means the world to him. when he is finished, he logs out and blocks her screen name, only to unblock her again next time he has an urge. lol

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  • boxmonkey
    12 years ago

    youve never met this guy!? hes probly some dead sh*t trailer park guy in his 30s hes left you coz he doesnt want a relationship just the sex but then changed hes mind relising that hel get sex if in a relationship THEN CHANGED AGAIN RELISING ITL BE THE SAME WOMEN!,then he offerd the friends with benefits deal so he can use you for sex assif hes in a relation ship but at the same time have sex with sluts so its not the same women,ditch the bast*rd you deserve better he can keep he,s whoes,WHAT SAY YOU?

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  • Troll
    12 years ago

    If obsessing is a key word here your a crazy bitch.

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  • ColePhelps
    12 years ago

    be happy for what you have. you're so lucky to feel this way :)<BR><BR>i was a jerk in many threads tonight for no reason other than im upset my crush has a bf im nothing but a crazy stalker <BR><BR>i wish i had all the answers but i dont

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