Is it normal to love a gay man if you are a woman?

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I have reconnected with a friend who I only had friend feelings for. He found me on Facebook and we have wrote back and forth everyday since. He confided in me that he was gay and has pretty been gay since he was young. As we talk my feelings for him are very strong. We have a lot in common. I have even made plans to stay with him when I visit. Is it normal to feel like we might be meant to be together?

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Based on 52 votes (42 yes)
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  • Tehboss
    12 years ago

    just ask him to b your fuckbudy if he says no MAKE HIM BE YOUR FUCKBUDY

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    put on a wig and a fake beard.

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  • alv1592
    12 years ago

    I love a couple of gay guys, in a friend way lol...it sounds like you two are simply good friends. You can't control who you like, just know that it won't go anywhere.

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  • hellostrangers
    12 years ago

    youre a fag hag. lol

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  • DoucheFAGGOT
    12 years ago

    I am an expert in these parts as you can see by my name. I will then tell you it straight. He may get down with you, but that doesn't make him straight. You need to gtfo of that guy because he won't treat you like you need to be treated sister. I would suggest a straight guy. They like girls.

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  • bra13vo
    12 years ago

    If he's totally gay, he sees you as his BFF, a faghag, and/or a real sister to him. nothing more. it will be almost impossible to workout

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    You already know he's not into you that way (unless he's bi, in which case that's a different story).

    you really want to sit on the sidelines and pine for someone who doesn't want you like that?

    You want to waste what... weeks, months, years of your life pushing away other men, for... a whole lot of nothing?

    perhaps you should rethink your feelings.
    and consider that maybe you're picking him out... not because he's going to be the love of your life, but because it's safer.

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  • Ennue
    12 years ago

    Normal? Probably. The gay ones are always the best guys, who knows why. Though I doubt it'll work out for you honey, best to eat a bucket of ice cream and move on from this one.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Just make him your gay best friend. It'll be like a relationship without the sex and you get to date others.

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