Is it normal to love 2 women at the same time?

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I've been married 29 years in a few months but about 2 1/2 years ago I met this woman who was a friend of my sister in law and from the moment we met we gradually started spending more and more time together, told each other everything about our lives before we met and she thought I was around her age(she's 37 now) I'm turning 59 in a few months but something happened that we never wanted it to but we fell in love. There was never any sex until about 8 months ago and both of us say we've never loved anyone like we are now. I've told her we would hurt to many people if we stay together, I'll be moving to another state in a few months with my wife and she says she's never going to let me go, I love my wife because she's been a gift to me but I'm not in love with her like I am with the other and I'm completely at odds with how to handle this situation/ relationship with out destroying lots of people. Is it wrong to love 2 women?

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  • pyralspiteful
    6 years ago

    In this situation, I can't really offer any eye-opening advice. But one thing I would say is, think very deeply about your relationship with both, and consider what to do. Maybe ask a trusted friend, and see what they say. The heart has reasons the mind knows not.

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