Is it normal to lose your virginity in the woods?

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Well I lost my virginity in the woods last summer with this guy I was with for long time about 2 years and it was my first time so I thought it'd be good. But it hurt and it was in the woods too! And I just got to know is he like too much into sex to even want to do it there? Because I sure don't ever want to have sex there again it just feels wrong. This is weird to talk about but I just have to know. And also if this helps, whenever I refuse to have sex with him so often he pushes me away and is mean towards me /:

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  • DADNSCAL
    11 years ago

    Just because you're in the woods doesn't mean you were ready. If it hurt, you weren't producing enough lubrication, and you weren't ready. The other thing is the hold he has over you. Is he older? A teacher or other person of authority? You shouldn't ever be forced to do something, especially sex, that you don't want.

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  • shuggy-chan
    11 years ago

    Sounds like crap way to lose ur V card. Welcome to the club, just try to make the next time more meaningful

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  • quentari
    11 years ago

    Sounds first like he wasn't going slow enough/you weren't lubricated enough when you lost your virginity. Also the hymen breaking may have increased pain.

    If you don't want to do it in the woods no one can make you, not even your boyfriend. And if he's treating you like crap when you refuse sex you may need to take a step back and ask yourself if he's even worth it.

    Him wanting to have sex in the woods is normal though, it's often seen as a "romantic" thing to have sex surrounded by nature. It's the "whenever I refuse to have sex with him so often he pushes me away and is mean towards me" that mainly has me worried. That is NOT normal.

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  • ucipher8
    11 years ago

    not normal. Lost mine in a car, not common. this was consensual wasn't it?

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  • dirtybirdy
    11 years ago

    Was it like the vine rape scene in evil dead? Eeek!

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    • shuggy-chan
      11 years ago

      No shhhhh i still need to see it

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      • dirtybirdy
        11 years ago

        you haven't seen the original?!?!?!

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        • shuggy-chan
          11 years ago

          I was little I cant remember it that well

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