Is it normal to lose your sex drive/sexual turn ons?

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Is it normal to lose a huge chunk of your sex drive/sexual turn ons? I’ve just found lately that porn I really need to dig deep for something that turns me on. I remember being a kid in high school seeing a big pair of tits and being hard for the rest of the day until I jerked off. One day after school I was at my friends house they were sort of rich his mom was a good looking blonde lady I know who she is today still hot and that was maybe 15 years ago she’s good looking but conservative not too flashy. We were over there hanging out in his computer room his mom came in to talk to us w.e we went back to the computer his mom was still in the room doing something it was a tiny room so she was basically next to me as she was looking through some drawers I kept looking over at her to see what she was doing when she got to the

bottom drawer she crouched down and hanging out of her jeans were these pink Victoria secret underwear with Victoria secrets written in cursive gold in the thin waist band remember it like it was yesterday (it was early high school hadn’t seen much of a women at this point) so I was already getting hard, as soon as she left I said I had to go to the bathroom went in sat down and let myself get completely hard with that mental image in my head my dick was huge big thick veiny I was too scared to jerk off in someone else’s bathroom I just let myself get completely hard and let it go down but holy shit I got a decent size cock never heard a complaint but back then my dick use to turn twice the size when hard now it’s just yea I’m up I’m trying I’ll stay hard but it’s not at its full extent. I’ve jerked off to many things over the years I’ve gained some weight over the years I’m not really sure what it is am I the only one? Do I need vitamins ? Do I need to eat better? What is it

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  • CDmale4fem
    3 years ago

    For the most part it's called getting older. Get used to it. Or try to, I still havent and dont really want to. But such is life.

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  • olderdude-xx
    3 years ago

    There can be a variety if issues.

    A good diet is needed by all - so improve it (and focus on things that improve sexual health).

    Talk to a Dr and have them check Testosterone level, thyroid function, Vitamin D, and any other things the Dr. wishes to look at.

    Note on the testosterone. Many Dr's see that someone is at the low end of normal and tell them they are fine. Most of these people need to be mid range or higher to function well. What is normal for you? I personally believe that all males should have testosterone testing done at age 18 so they know what that person's normal really is (is it upper, mid, or lower range). While testosterone eventually decreases with age. A normal upper level person with lower range testosterone is not going to function well - and likely needs to enhance their testosterone level.

    There is also a psychological factor. A problem many people have is that whatever turns them on now becomes normal later and no longer turns them on. They need to change. I've both read and found that I have cycled through a variety of different sex fantasies over the years due to this (which is normal). So you may need to go back a bit and look at things that may not have been appealing long ago. Now they might be. I'm sure that as long as you are physically OK that you will figure out a new mental stimulus.

    I wish you well with this,

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  • LloydAsher
    3 years ago

    We all get into a sexual slump at random points into our lives.

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  • RoseIsabella
    3 years ago

    Stop watching pornography, and see a doctor to check your hormones.

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