Is it normal to lose your bestfriend over your boyfriend?

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Me and my best friend used to do everything together but now I have a boyfriend things have changed. I have been with him for about 5 months now. He lives with me at my aunts house its been about 3 months since he moved in. I barely spend time with her anymore and shes telling me that he is seperating us. When she tells him, he gets heart broken and starts to feel bad. I dont want to loose her frienship or even the one I love. I have tried to spend time with her but it never works. It always ends up me feeling bad, him getting jelous or thinking that I did something wrong. Is it normal?

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  • Legion
    13 years ago

    Normally, one loses a friend if they date the friends ex. maybe you should spend a little more time with her. since you didnt date your freinds ex, you shouldent have to choose.

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  • Faceless
    13 years ago

    3somes put an end all relationship quarrels. Its the way the world works.

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  • DefinitelyNotNormal89
    13 years ago

    It sounds like she's getting jealous but you definitely have to make time for her and your boyfriend should respect that. As long as you make the effort there's nothing more you can do, throw the ball in her court

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  • harrypotters
    13 years ago

    You didn't do anything wrong if she was truely your friend she wouldn't act like that. Like you said you have tryed to spend time with her. She just sounds like she is spoiled and dosen't want anyone to take you away from her.

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