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My girlfriend and I have been together for three months; at first I found her hot, yet as I have gotten to know her and her habits and beliefs, I find my attraction for her waning very quickly.
Is it normal to lose sexual interest in somebody so quickly for reasons that aren't sexual ?
Definitely move on...if you really liked her, you'd be liking her more by the day and not losing interest.
Time to move on. If you lose interest that quickly, there are some fundamental problems.
This is much more common than anyone might think. You cant force yourself to be sexually attracted to anyone and familiarity often breeds contempt. Working at it is a waste of time as it's fake. Go with you instincts, call it a day and get back out there.
physical attraction and mental attraction go hand in hand. yeah i agree. if i see a guy thats really attractive to me but he lacks the personality that i find attractive, then i would lost interest in him too
last year i met a really cute black guy, he was really cute in my opnion then i got to know him. hes sweet and nice but somehow he has a sticky personality then i lost all my interest in him...
Going through this right now, and been through this before. There has been one that I went out with that this didnt happen with, but there's no going back there. Guess we'll just have to wait for another some day! OH well
sounds like you should move on every man has this expierience so just move on quick and dont hurt her more than it will now ~understander
That's where the work comes in a relationship. Got to rekindle the fire.
Men are idiots if they 'get cold' after a certain amount if time being with a woman. It's called don't waste your time with women if you Know you will lose interest in them eventually.
We never know that we loose intrest in the woman at first. It happens over time when she really starts showing her true face. Most females always show their best sides first then once they got us then comes the bullshit, sometimes we don't find out how F. stupid she is till later. Or she talks to F. much about everything that makes no sense to anybody but anther female. Women think they can talk to men the same way they talk to females, they can't. That's why mew and women don't understand eachother. Anyway we never know we don't like you in the beginning, takes time to see if we really like you. Duh....
And to add to it, the only thing interesting about alot of females is their "Pussy" cause when they open there mouth you can forget it!!!
Some can have very good pussy, but their stupid as hell in there head. So just F them and don't marry them, cause the kids will come out stupid too from her dumb ass. Then your stuck with her funky ass for life.
Its not a human fault. It is how it is supposed to be. Nature's plan. Love exists only into hormons in a mind, and In a man's mind, they just stop producing. Its not something we can control.
You're an idiot. Men and women alike are perfectly capable of love. Not all men "go cold" after a certain amount of time. My boyfriends parents just had their 50 year anniversary in August and they are still in madly in love. So, I'm sorry that a woman can't put up with you for more than a few months. Not all men are like you. Fortunately.
omg i am soooo sick of hearing everyone blaming a guys cruelness and insensativity to fucking hormones and shit! you dont see woem nwalking aorund saying "its not my fault i cheated on you i produce alot of testosterone!" or "its not my fault i flirt-im a women its apart of what makes me" or how about "you cant blame me for being a whore im a women" like men do all the damn time you know what? women have just as many chemicals and hormones and shit pumping thru us on a daily basis but we still have to work hard to control ourselves! so stop making excuses!
It is called "getting cold" and happens to every guy, after a difrent amount of time thow.
You only attraction to her was sex and if that is all it will become boring very quick.
If you lose attraction to her over normal things then yes you can lose sexual attraction for her as well. Mental and physical attraction go hand in hand. You are probably better off breaking up with her, don't waste either of your time by letting it drag on.
Someones personality can def make or break them. I would move on if I were you. Because no matter what your prob never going to look at her the way you once did.
It just goes to show that personalities are far more attractive than looks.
It happens.. Lol, like a car, may look great on the outside.. once you check under the hood, you may not like what you see.