Is it normal to lose sexual interest in your girlfriend?

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I have been dating this amazing girl for the past six months. Lately, I haven't felt that strong sexual urge towards her that I used to feel. I know, to a certain degree, that this is normal, but when we had sex the other night, I couldn't finish or stay hard for more than five minutes.
Maybe its a frequency thing. When I go more than a week week without having sex, I begin to want her a lot more.
I feel like this same thing happens with all the girls that I have dated. It's REALLY stressing me out, and putting a slight strain on our relationship. I want to love her and be the best for her that I can be.

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  • Kittycatkiller
    11 years ago

    Is there something that has made you less attracted to her? Are you comparing her to someone else?

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    • 1000yrVampireKing
      11 years ago

      Please tell me you do not really kill cats?

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Did she suddenly eat all the pies?

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  • MilleBornes
    11 years ago

    Happens a lot to ALL of us. We need to remember what attracted us in the first place. Whatever changed since then may be a combination of yours and her actions.

    Like, did she give great bj while also dressed in a maid costume with purple hair, but now she gives lackadaisical bj while just in het "around the house" clothes? Did she enjoy herself so much going out and you fed off that energy when she was home because she was always chipper but now, you try to keep her to yourself? Is it from weight gain or weight loss?

    Mostly this situation occurs from doing the same thing over and over (i.e. ALWAYS the same 2-3 positions ALWAYS at home, ALWAYS blah blah) Try new things, get her excited by them.Tell her truthfully what really excites you.

    The other reason, hopefully you didn't but we men do and are seen as mean.....Is she really not attractive to you, but was a cool friend, or was a quick lay kinda cool somewhat sobby backstory and had that I need to be saved feeling? We get infatuated with people sometimes and we think that means love, probably cause we're actively searching. Knowing is better than wasting both of your times and possibly giving the other some form of depression.

    Being together six months, however, maybe it's just the needing to find more excitement sexually

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