Is it normal to loose interest in girls

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Hi, im a 17 years old guy who probably think that I've lost interest in girls. It all began when I got into a relationship with a girl (our relationship lasted for about 6 months). From the beginning it was perfect bla.bla.bla. but after some time it went downhill with arguments and etc. She was always trying to dominate and I didn't like it, dont worry I told her to stop. BUT she didn't. While having our relationship she tripped and always made me feel the guilty one and I always apologized because I do not like to quarrel. While having relationship with her, I've lost my interest in other girls and I've felt that I was not attracted to them like I used to be. It was like my girlfriend made me loose my feelings towards the opposite gender. One day we were having sex and my penis wouldn't really erect probably because I was nervous and it was my first time. We tried again some days later and again my erection wasn't proper and she got freakin mad. That made me loose all my self esteem and I was so fucking scared that I became erectile dysfunctional. Now it's been some time, and I really need help. Is it possible to loose interest in the opposite gender. I just need some help. IM SO FUCKING SCARED THAT IM GAY. Also watching porn I really dont get a proper erection but I just tried to watch gay porn and my erection was harder. But I just know that im not gay, because before I got into this negative relationship I liked girls and while watching the ''standard'' porn I got a proper and hard erection. HELP!!!!

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  • lordofopinions
    5 years ago

    No wonder you are having problems getting your soldier to stand at attention. Your so called gf is putting you under so much stress. Also you said it was your first time. The first time will have its own set of problems such as performance anxiety. My suggestion is to dump the gf. She sounds toxic. Then watch some more porn and get it on until you have no problems getting it up and ejaculating. When you do get another gf and the time is right for sex tell her you are a virgin. I am sure she will do whatever it takes to relax you so there is no pressure. Good luck.

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    • WhatToDoNow
      5 years ago

      you're the best :)

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  • Maid_in_Pink
    5 years ago

    There is a thing called Erectile Dysfunction ya know...and as far as being gay..

    Do you like Men? Do you want to have sex with men, do you want men to have sex with you? Do you want to marry men?

    If the answers to those is no then no you're not gay.

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  • rayb12
    5 years ago

    Just avoid western girls

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  • IrishPotato
    5 years ago

    Maybe erectile dysfunction.
    Maybe nerves.
    Maybe just gay.

    All are fine.

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  • leggs91200
    5 years ago

    You might have a hang-up right now about your ex. That can cause performance problems, at least until you are truly over her.
    For erectile dysfunction - typically that is a problem for older men OR men who are trying to get hard for some ugly chick that he has no interest in. I saw a shirt once that had a viagra pill painted on it and it said, "I do not need a pill to get a hard on, I need a better looking woman".
    Right now you are still pissed off and frustrated by your ex. Maybe you see all females in a bad light right now.
    It does not mean you are into men.

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