Is it normal to look up porn on the computer than feel very guilty
I look up porn all the time on my iPod than feel very guilty about it afterwards ????
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I look up porn all the time on my iPod than feel very guilty about it afterwards ????
I never thought I would feel guilty myself but occasionally I do when i watch porn. There is a fundamental reason as to why you're watching porn and feeling guilty about it: it is that you are somehow lacking sense of purpose. You feel like a sad git watching porn while your friends are probably doing something else more exciting and meaningful.
So perhaps that is what you should do next; go find yourself some nice hobbies and interests and pursue them and take your mind off the porn. In the grander scheme of things, there is nothing wrong with watching porn since you're not really hurting anyone, but the fact that you're feeling guilty about it means that perhaps there is some truth in what i just said. Obviously I could be wrong but you'll have to decide for yourself ultimately how to remove that feeling of guilt.
Normal response. You feel guilty because pornography isn't the correct form of love you are craving. You want emotional stability with a partner, and pornography doesn't give that. Pornography also destroys your image of women, so you feel guilty for that too.
Normal. Absolutely normal.
If you idiots feel guilty your brain is trying to tell you that just because "everyone does it" doesn't mean it is ok. You probably feel guilty because you are a quality human being and realize women in porn are treated like objects and not enjoying one second of the sex-
They had a fucked up upbringing and you are exploiting that.
so LAW13 did you know that A LOT of them actually love their job and love sex, which is why they got into doing that in the first place. i am a chick and i LOVE porn. people ASSUME the same when it comes to strippers. most of the chicks who do that need a night time job while studying at UNI and its very good money. sex sells and porn has been around for a long long time. if girls really didnt love doing it, do you think they would keep doing it? sure, there are the minority who do it because they have a drug habbit or whatever but there are people like that in every industry, not just porn.
This is completely normal. We're raised in a society where porn is always portrayed in a negative way: the only time we hear mention of porn is when someone gets thrown in jail for making porn/selling porn or other illegal things of the sort. However, watching porn and masturbating in general are normal activities.
Even though I don't recommend anyone to stop watching porn, you must be cautious not to abuse of it.
Your instinct tells you that sex is to be done in privacy. That you should not see nakedness of another person. And that is why. You can either stop watching porn and be healthy, or you can "deactivate" you instincts and live like a pig.
Instinct is that hardwired little program in you that gives you the basic guidance in life.
Just experience the real thing for yourself. Rather than watching porn and seeing other people do it.
i heard porn get your confidence down so maybe it comes in a guilty feel for you.
It has gotten to the point where I had to buy a 9 months practise pregnant belly suite which I had to give up in March 2013, since my one and only bf found it and took to a charity shop. However I never really said that I had brought it or why. I feel empty without it.
I loved to still act very very fat and pregnant too wearing tight clothes (sometimes I wear an old swimming suite stuffed to the max) and a very tight belt. It does not feel the same anymore, and does not feel like I am carrying a baby.
ALL. THE. TIME.
I'm also hella paranoid. I feel like somehow, someone I know will retrieve my internet history. Once, I even went on my cell phone and I felt like somehow the people at my phone company saw what I was doing.
Yes it's normal and in my opinion, its your own self telling you not to do it. Many times people feel guilty or shallow after looking at porn because porn is shallow and it simply feeds the animal instinct in us men without any meaning. Now, some men want that, others who want a real relationship would feel guilty about it. It is VERY east to get addicted to it as well. Ive heard it referred to as being stronger addiction than heroine.
Always, especially if you're under the legal age like me. I feel really bad all the time about it. Like I'm letting someone down. But everyone does it so you've got nothing to feel bad about!
No reason to feel guilty unless u have a bf/gf and you take it overboard with always looking it up.
ME TOO!
am a lady and cannot stop watching pregnancy hardcore porn and having a good masturbate to it all.
Its gotten to the point where I had to buy (and now wear) a 9 months practise pregnant belly suite to do the job it fells so much better than stuffing myself and the best thing I brought. I love wearing it while watching pregnancy hardcore porn or stuff re pregnancy on TV or YouTube then masturbate rubbing a bath towel in-between my fanny and crossing my legs, when no one is around. Has anyone else brought one of these practise pregnant belly suite? I am thinking of wearing my suite one day around my village to see if any looks at me and to see how much turned on I get.
I too cannot see women, friends, family members or teachers pregnant in real life without being wet below and sexily aroused.I believe I would have to see something about pregnancy to get me in the mood before sex God I am so turned on now I need to go masturbate good and hard, as I am very wet too. View my story to read more!
Yes thats totally normal. You probably live in a place where people don't 'agree' with porn or thinks it's suitable and even if you don't it's genral thought that porn is 'disturbing', 'wrong', 'unnatural' ect... So it's natural you would feel a bit guilty afterwards.
Try to think to yourself "It's ok theres nothing wrong with it; I'm being like any normal human being and doing something I like because it makes me feel good at the time. It doesn't matter what other people think."
I hope this helped you a little. :)
It depends what type of porn it is an what your ashamed or feel guilty about.....
i dont think its normal to feel guilty unless your partner doesnt know about it so i guess in saying that, it would be normal because not many guys would share with their partner that they watch porn. my partner and i watch porn together and separately and neither of us feel guilty about it.
I do that shit to. But never felt gilty of it insted i beet my meat and nut all over my phone.
its ok i always look at porn on my psp,ipod and ds i its normal... but do feel a lil bad... but i love porn it turns me on go to *Fan Of Lesbians* it turns me on : D
Society used to tell us it was wrong. Some still do. You feel like you're breaking rules, doing something you shouldn't. Relax, it's totally okay.