Is it normal to look at my boyfriend

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Is it normal that sometimes I will look at my boyfriend and notice how unattractive he looks?It is involuntary, and I feel horrible afterwards.He isn't that great looking, but that doesn't matter.I love him, but is it normal to think this?

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    What if he looks at you in the same way?

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  • cass
    13 years ago

    no this is completley normal, and shows how good of person you are. my ex (whom i was with for three years) was not attractive to me what so ever, his personality was to me thought and i loved him a lot. so yes it is normal to love him but not be attracted to him that much, as long as you make him feel attractive :)

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  • --ash--
    13 years ago

    Just check his bank acc's first before making a commitment.

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  • MochaCriola
    13 years ago

    Yes its nomal happens to me all the time. I try not to look directly at folks because they scare me after a while

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  • harrypotters
    13 years ago

    You obviously like him for who he is just be happy you found a nice man. Who care's if he isn't the best looking guy better than someone that is goodlooking than an asshole or you dont get along aswell.

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  • Helpneeded1
    13 years ago

    I have the exact same problem! Idk wat 2 do bout it nd i need advice 2 anyy help?

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  • michaelat
    13 years ago

    um.. well how can you be with a guy you aren't physically attracted to? that's an aspect in a healthy relationship.

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  • TieDiedSuperstar
    13 years ago

    Well if you break up with him then you won't have a boyfriend. Then you'll have to find somebody else. It probably not me. So...

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  • dot_r_loser
    13 years ago

    Awwhh, that's kinda sad. xD But it doesn't make you a bad person at all. Normal, and don't feel bad about it, as long as you love him. Then little things like that shouldn't even bother you.

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  • Dumbass95
    13 years ago

    Yeah, that is kinda really weird. I think would just be a friend.

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  • Ms.Caffinated
    13 years ago

    ....Did i just..? Yup. I just told everybody a long, unnessasary story... lmao. Okay time for bed :D

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  • Ms.Caffinated
    13 years ago

    It's not good, but it is normal. I got tipsy once with my ex and my cousin, and he was talking to him, and i couldn't help but notice everything unattractive about him! I was freaking out,wondering if we got married if our kids would look like him, I was so turned off and i felt HORRIBLE!!! I was really distant the whole next day, and when he tried to kiss me, i made an excuse. The next night, he looked at me so hurt and said, "Did i do something wrong?" I looked at the kicked-puppy face he had on and I felt like i was going to cry! I had hurt such a great, smart, funny guy! I just hugged him. He made some kinda joke about mood swings and I lmao! I looked at him again, and i didn't see the imperfections, I just saw the guy that could make me laugh so hard when i was about to cry. He will always be my first love ~^_^~ to bad i moved differant states <:'(

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