Is it normal to live in a world of couples?

I'm 22 and I haven´t had a Boyfriend it's really confusing because I think deep down inside I don't want a boyfriend but society itself works with couples. It happens that all of my close friends end up together I am literally seeing myself as a matchmaker. Is not that I don't have male friends in fact most of my friends are guys it's just that I am loosing hope of finding true gentleman a guy that turns my world around, not just a hook up or a boyfriend that doesn't respect me.

I have had enough experience by hearing the stories of my guy friends where they like more than one girl and think they deserve models, and actually get to be with very beautiful girls. It's like the world is made for men in my country almost all of the girls are really pretty and intelligent but guys that's another story. To begin with there is like 4 girls for every men and trust me the men around aren't much inspiring je. That's why good beautiful girls get to be with ugly, stupid guys. The few good guys have girlfriends (of course) that have made sure they changed.

It also happens that a woman like me isn't desirable only because I don't play their game and I actually speak up and expect to be treated well. I'm not a princess, I'm just a common woman that deserves respect, if every girl knew how to make others respect herself maybe men wouldn't be such pricks and expect you to be 90-60-90 for them.

But it is true that we live in a world ruled by couples. It is nice to picture this, but not when you are the outsider and somehow you just get the worst of men. I'm not a lesbian (Trust me I studied the idea, but noppp) though I might sound as one in this moment.

Sometimes I think that I belong to an other century or something I'm not religious, I drink, I party, It's just that I think I might still be waiting for the right guy, there must be someone out there that knows how to treat a girl.

For the meanwhile I have to deal with this couples' world, because as much as I'm an outsider they are still my friends and I know they will be thrilled when I find my match finally and stop preaching around je.

¿Should I give up in my love quest, are there any good guys ?

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  • gabface19

    yeah it sucks to feel pressured by what you see around you. =/ One of my best friends is in your boat. But I always tell her it is truly better to wait for the gentleman if that is what you are looking for, but also, be aware of your expectations and compare that with your age group.

    Unfortunately the gentlemen are sparse these days, or older and hence more mature..
    **keep your eyes peeled though! I got lucky (found a true gentleman lol) so there are SOME out there ;)

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  • xino00

    yes there are good guys out there, you just have to wait!

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