Is it normal to like your ex even if he cheated on you?

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Me and my ex already broken up a year ago, but I still have feelings for him, even though I tell people I don't. He had played with my feelings, but I still liked him until now, I have a boyfriend now, but I not really in love with the current one. I gave my ex gifts but he doesn't. I had tried to forget about him but I can't. His brother and me are very close, as in like friends, he always asks me whether I still like my ex and I always admit that I still like him. We are now in different schools. And he told me that he doesn't have feelings for me anymore, it really hurt my feelings.

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  • keef
    11 years ago

    Fuck that guy. If he plays with your emotions just kick him to the curb.
    Get a guy that will put you on a fucking pedestal and buy you chocolates in heart shaped boxes even when it's not Valentine's Day.
    Nobody deserves an ass. Just forget about him!

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  • annm2361
    11 years ago

    Forget him. U only want him cos he didn't want u. But ur worth more than that. If u have problems in ur new relationship talk to each other about what u want and need. Or go be single and enjoy loving yourself you don't need a man to do that.

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  • Energy
    11 years ago

    I know how you feel..

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  • jc25
    11 years ago

    Rmotions. Are. Freaking. IRRATIONAL.

    If they also make you feel like doing what's best for you then that's almost by chance. Like dice with a few lead grains benefiting the good sides. Some people's dice are so inaccurate that it's probably best only dating people you DON'T like.

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    • redoctober
      11 years ago

      Rooby Rooby doooo!!!!!!!!!!

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  • NiceKitty
    11 years ago

    Get. Over. Him.
    This site is for 18+
    By the sounds of this, I believe you either A) Very recently turned 18 or B) you lied about being 18.

    Bleck.. If you like him still, cool. If he doesn't like you back, shitty.
    If you are still worrying about it, weird.
    Just chill out and smoke a blunt or something.. Seriously your still young and you will meet someone else.
    Sorry for sounding harsh, things like this are just trivial in the big grand scheme of things. You will see eventually.

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  • rockycruz
    9 years ago

    Yes, it's normal because of the emotional investment you put into him/relationship. So you will have memories about him and it will take time.

    Hope it works out where you can move on. But it is normal. You'll be fine in time to come.

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  • la_uva_mojada
    11 years ago

    did he insult u or put u down a lot? like telling u ur fat, ugly, etc? if so, this is psychology that when a significant other (usually the male) does that, he lowers her self esteem on purpose and for some stupid reason it causes the girl to love him more than herself. its very common and dispicable practice. if thats the cause u need to recognize it and try to rebuild ur self esteem by doing things for yourself (like exercising) and in the future make sure u only date men who are good on the inside and not mean and cruel like that.

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  • goingcrazy
    11 years ago

    i'm in the same situation...don't know what to do.. :-((

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