Is it normal- to like your boss?

I'm 20, white, and just moved to a new area about 4 months ago. I got a job at a independently owned movie theater not too long after I moved. I have been working there since January 18th. My problem is that over the last couple of months I have become attracted to the owner of the theater. He is 26 and Indian. I've never been attracted to an Indian before so it threw me off when I first started to realize I had feelings for him. However, he really is comfortable to be around. He and I like a lot of the same things and we get along really well. He invites me to play golf with him all the time and we play tennis every now and again. He hates scary movie's (thank god). It's only been a few months but I know so much about him. What he likes, doesn't like. He's close to his family. I've met his mother, brother, and sister and talked to them several times since they come to the theater a lot. I just don't know what to do. I don't want to tell him because I don't want to lose the friendship we've built, but I'm always thinking of him and what he might be doing. I've never been in a situation like this before. I've never liked someone I knew I couldn't be with. So, I just don't know what to do.

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Based on 61 votes (45 yes)
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  • plum6

    Thanks for telling us you are white, really useful information..

    Considering your problem, I assume you are a woman. In that case, please just tell the guy how you feel! Us guys are not that great at picking up signals like that, but considering the fact that you actually spend lots of time together, and you have even met his family there is a big chance that he has romantic feelings for you.

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  • Aww that's sweet let him know how you feel ! (: he probably feels the same way ! X

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  • dreamygirl

    Just tell him, I am sure he won't turn you down moreover Indian men are Hot (some of them) so it's absolutely normal.!

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  • jessicadavid

    if you like him, if u r in love with him ,then carry on, other wise for the sake of money or something like that, you are liking him, then it would be difficult for you to manage after sometime :)
    best of luck ;)

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