Is it normal to like wearing rubber and using butt toys

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Please help as I think I may need psychiatric help? I am a straight male, but I privately love to wear rubber clothes, catsuit, stockings, penIs pants etc, and I even have rubber thigh boots. I also like using butt toys, anything from a small plug to an 8" dildo! I've also spent about 8000$ using credit cards over a period of about 6 mths buying all this! I'm also splitting with my long term partner over this, and we have an 11 yo son, as she thinks I'm a absolute weirdo! It's causing me depression! Sometimes I wonder Wots the point in being alive! Please help, and please be serious? Thans :(

Yes it IS normal using rubber/ butt toys 11
it is NOT normal using rubber/ butt toys 1
It IS normal to spend 8k on all this? 0
It is NOT normal to spend 8k on all this? 10
My partner IS justified in saying I'm a weirdo? 1
My partner is NOT justified in saying I'm a weirdo? 1
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  • TerryVie
    12 years ago

    sounds like a case of midlife crisis-

    you found a reorientation in your life and something new that gets you really involved, or thats what your spending suggests. Don't overdo it with the money, but otherwise have fun and best of luck, it's a normal fetish, but try and make sure you are fine with how things will work out with your family over this.

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    • sidcysb
      12 years ago

      Thanks, you might be right about the MLC! I have just gone way over board since my partner told me she wanted out, that was about six months ago.

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  • RinTin
    12 years ago

    Hey, I want a catsuit myself but I'm not gunna max out my credit cards to get one! If I were your partner I'd be more angry at you for spending all of that money. Why don't you try compromising with her?...or stick to using the internet.

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    • sidcysb
      12 years ago

      Thanks for the comment, I think I've started all this since my partner told me it was over about six months ago and it might be a symptom of me having deppression?

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      • RinTin
        12 years ago

        yeah I think the overspending is a symptom of your depression. Is it the only thing you enjoy doing? When I'm depressed I tend to focus all of my energy on one activity. I like reading and I would read all day long and I kept buying books...it was the only thing that made me happy so I couldn't stop.

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