Is it normal to like to be belittled during sex?

I've always been submissive sexually, not elsewhere in life, but in bed. I have always liked strict guy, rules and so on. But I find myself wanting more kink, guys making me do hard, often humiliating things. At the time it can be tough but in hindsight I love the thrill of the humiliation. I know some others like this too, but is it mad?

I'm a 27 woman btw.

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Comments ( 12 )
  • GoraIntoDesiGals

    Do you like to be pissed on?

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    • Welshfaye

      Not the greatest fan sorry. Not above it though.

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  • paul737

    As I submissive myself, I can relate. I love being with a dominant woman, and the humiliation is a turn on for me, also...so, It's normal, I would say, as long as the men know how far to push it. Make sure you tell them.

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    • Welshfaye

      Great, yeah I have limits so don't go past those.

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  • YouKnowWho

    Yeah, it's mad. Whatever messed up reasons psychology has come up with to explain this kind of behavior don't convince me. If you like to be treated badly, you have some sort of hidden self-esteem issue or something. It's only healthy for people to be treated as equals in bed. Go ahead, people, throw virtual rocks at me, I don't care.

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    • Welshfaye

      No that's a fair response. I do enjoy it but do wonder whether I'm setting feminism back a bit!

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      • Justsomejerk

        Only if you think all women should be submissive. Mrs str8up is not doing feminism any favours.

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  • Mrstr8up

    Its only right for a MAN to run things in the bedroom in my eyes. Its the only way!! When it comes to sex I'm the king and my lady damn sure know. I don't play when horny and anytime any place. I'm a fool ..... When its on its on BABY. I can say so much on this subject.

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    • Welshfaye

      Firstly nice profile write up :-). Ha, so ALL women should be sexually submissive then?! :-p

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  • Thorolf

    Man, I also have a kinky submissive humiliation and/or helplessness loving side. I absolutely hate that part of myself.

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  • ygrowup

    Fulfilling someone's fantasy is wonderful for both people involved, share your desires and enjoy!

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  • gummy_jr

    BDSM
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