Is it normal to like the attention?

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Ive been in a relationship with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now and love him and we plan on getting engaged next year. I have always had a lot of guys interested but have never been the fling kind of girl- always looking for 'the one'. Now im sure ive found him but i still like the attention i get from other guys. And sometimes dont tell them about my boyfriend so i dont put them off. I would never go further than banter and gentle chit chat or harmless flirting now n again but i like the attention and like that they try to flirt with me. Is it normal?? Or am i in a way cheating?? Is it normal that i let them fall for me and pretend to be oblivious until they tell me at which point i do always let them down easy and normally come clean about my boyfriend.

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Based on 44 votes (29 yes)
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  • lovebuzz1025
    12 years ago

    Yeeeah thats normal

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  • randomjelly
    12 years ago

    I live by a simple rule: if I wouldn't do/say it in front of my girlfriend then I shouldn't be doing it at all.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I think it's normal. Because I'm the same way. But I know that when my bf flirts with girls I get pretty ticked.

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  • MrsBailey9
    12 years ago

    Randomjelly said it perfectly! Why are you playing games? Playing with people's feelings and emotions is BS! It hurts, and quite frankly I think very little of you for doing so. Grow up!

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  • AngAnders112
    12 years ago

    you should just be honest and tell your fiance what you do. there's nothing wrong with a little harmless attention; no reason to deceive him about it. plus it'll probably make him a little jealous and start to give you more attention. he'll try extra harder in the bedroom. good luck!

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  • lc1988
    12 years ago

    that's pretty fucked up.

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  • chaosdragoon1
    12 years ago

    Normal but that means you are insecure. You need to fix that because it is bound to cause problems in your future relationship.

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    • DeeDeetheslut
      12 years ago

      this is true. you have to question what you really intend on getting out of not being truthful.I mean arent relationships based on a good portion of trust?
      Trust Means- doing the right thing,EVEN though nobodys looking. Lacking emotions even in the slightest, will cause you to slip from your relationship,the slightest.

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  • BlueDude
    12 years ago

    Kinda lame and selfish is you think about it.

    I mean your bf obviously doesnt know this is how you behave and probably wouldn't approve.

    And the random guys who give you attention, you give them hope and then gentley let them down wasting there time.

    It's not fair to your bf, and its unfair to the men who try to talk to you. Only one whose winning here is you.

    Another thing you could always ask yourself whenever you end up in a situation is this.

    Could i do this infront of my s/o? Could my s/o do this infront of me? How would he/she feel if they knew? How would i feel if he/she were doing the same thing?

    (s/o = significant other)

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    • Trizzic
      11 years ago

      What this guy said. You should really stop it. You wouldn't like that if your bf did that to other girls would you?

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    • BlueDude
      12 years ago

      if*

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