Is it normal to like someone i know will never be with me?

I've liked someone for a pretty long time now and I know he's not bisexual or gay. Is it normal to basically be in love with him?

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Based on 68 votes (62 yes)
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  • joybird

    I believe that "What's for you won't go past you." So if you two are meant to be together, it might be 10 years later, but it will happen eventually :o) Stay calm.

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  • sarber144

    Of course its normal. i'm not one to judge.Good luck with him:)

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  • Strangely, I know how you feel as well. There's someone I like, I really like them and we get along really well.

    Except, I can't go out with them because my family would probably not like it and for the first time in a while, things are good with my family.

    It sucks so bad because I just want my family to turn around and say, "hey, it's fine if you want to date that person" but they won't.

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  • squirrelgirl

    I understand how you feel. I'm pretty sure I'm a lesbian, and I still have feelings for a straight woman 8 years after we got in a fight and stopped being friends. I guess there's still a tiny part of me that hopes that one day, she'll discover she's at least bi and show up on my doorstep apologizing to me and asking me to be her girlfriend like I've always wanted, as unrealistic and illogical as that is.

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  • solidman

    Sure its normal. But ask yourself this do you really love him or are you just obses with him and if so than go for him. Don't be negative keep being posivete and tell yourself that you can be with him. And also does he have a gf if not than go fully for him if so than sorry but you need to forget him.

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