Is it normal to like someone for almost 4 years?

We don't talk that much as we used to, but I still like him so much. I think of him everyday. I've messages him and asked him how he's doing, he's changed a lot, but I just can't seem to let go of him, even though we never dated. IIN?

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  • BluntsRolled

    Sounds like somebody I know... Amanda? I doubt It's you but I had to ask. *shrugs*

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  • shin10912

    you should definitely ask him out. you never know when you'll stop this.. it's been 4 years and you don't know much about him. he's really "mysterious" to you that you want to find out what he actually is like; which leads you to keep thinking about him. be friends with him or ask him out, once you know him better, you may be able to forget him or be his gf! good luck

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  • popsy123

    hi

    i can totally relate to u as i also like sumone too much since 2 months....but have u tried asking the guy what he feels abt u?
    wud he like to know u more?
    guess u shuld try that..al the best

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  • PapzBSlim

    I liked my current girlfriend for like 2 years before we hooked up. I definitely would have approached her way before but she was not available. As soon as opportunity arose, I made some moves. She even said "I can't" initially but after I told her how I really felt about her personality and how she has the body of a Goddess, she opened up and told me she liked me also. We gave it a shot and we are now together and in love. You have to give it a chance and tell him how you feel. Even if he says no, you can continue to move on. If he does say no, will also kind of lose this feeling for him. I do hope you get what you want.

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  • Terence_the_viking

    it's like your favourite smell you love it for ever

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  • yesnomaybeso

    This happened to me, I used to think about a guy all the time for almost 5 years, even after we broke up. And he also changed a lot...

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  • suishokiba

    If he seems interested enough in talking or hanging out with you, take the plunge and ask him out. if he seems too busy with other things, he may not be interested. if you've been close friends with eachother, confess. if he barely knows you exist after 4 years, give up. you can't hang on forever.. it's not good for anyone. I recommend telling him how you feel.

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