Is it normal to like someone but your best friend is dating him?

im wondering if its normal to like someone but your best friend is dating him. and when shevtalks about him you leave the conversation because you like him so much. i dated him before her. but it was like a week because he didnt want to ruin our friendship. but i still have alot of feelings for him. but i cant express them because he is dating my best friend. i hate it when he comes over to sit next to her when im around and when he talks to me, i cant laugh or act like im flirting or anything because my bff will get mad as well as my boyfreind. i miss him txting me all the time. and yelling goodnight and how much he loved me. i cant get over it. i need some advise please. not just some random stupid comment. PPPPLLLLEEEEEZZZZZZ!!!!

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  • Oh dear.. i dont really know what too suggest but i do know that this is normal, :/ maybe try too talk too this guy about it? or yoor best friend? see what happens x

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  • turbojohnson

    well you have three choices you could seduce him and steal him for your self thus ruining your friendship and probably lose common friends. or you can repress this natural desire and feel bad until you get over him probably the best choice for your karma. third and most difficult is when you are talking to your friend about what she is going to get him for an up coming birthday/ holiday or what ever tell her that if hes been really good you can give him a very special gift when she asks what you are talking about tell her you can give him a three way with yourself involved if she is a good friend and not too shy she will probably say yes in which case you can then all hang out together and after the first go around he will want that again and then you can both be dating him which would make him a very lucky guy.

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