Is it normal to like really hard abusive degrading sex?

I like really verbally and physically abusive sex. Is there something wrong with me? Like I like to be thrown down and treated like a whore pretty much, except I want the guys to slap me across the face and hit me hard during sex. I like it when they dominate me and make me feel used. I have a fantasy of a man knocking me out with a something in my drink and waking up to him fingering me. Is that wrong?

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  • NathanScot

    My kind of lass.

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  • TerryVie

    what avant-garde said. normal for masochism, welcome to the club.

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  • Avant-Garde

    You seem to be a Masochist. It's normal, just be safe with it. Don't forget to use safewords and have sessions (play) with someone you can trust and who knows what they are doing!

    Good Luck:)

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  • Alison89

    That's a bit rougher than I would ever want to be treated, but I don't think that's so bad, just that you have a higher tolerance than most people.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    I suggest the following for you - the movie Secretary and the scifi/fantasy Kushiel series by Jacqueline Carey.

    Love comes in many forms and with some... there are some who crave the lash along with the kiss.

    Just remember to have a "signale" or "safe word" if you prefer. You may never use it, may never even want to use it, but have one available just in case.

    it's ok to have thorns in your romance. but never without trust

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