Is it normal to like insecure guys?

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I always seem to like disturbed guys or the really shy, quiet ones who are insecure. I don't know why it is, but just loud, cocky, arrogant or rude guys just seem annoying to me and I dislike confidence in guys. In fact confidence to me is a turn-off. I love it when guys get embarrassed and blush or get flustered, I find it adorable. But, what I want to know, is why? Why do I like insecure guys?

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  • Arm0se
    8 years ago

    Three posts in a row that made me feel better about myself!?!? Are these just trolls? :/

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    • TrustMeImLying
      8 years ago

      ;)

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      • Arm0se
        8 years ago

        Damn it （ つ︣﹏╰）

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  • januarycurse
    8 years ago

    weird because shy and insecure guys are usually too nice and everyone knows that nice guys finish last.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      maybe some girls like nice guys who aren't jerks...

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  • Sweetpe
    8 years ago

    I think that's sweet just goes to show there actually is girls for a nice shy guy :) it might be because of past experiences or just the way they are for me I like shy quiet girls because it makes me feel better knowing I'm not the only one that gets embarresed easy and such so I feel more comfortable

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  • handsignals
    8 years ago

    IIN I like guys with small dicks that hide in there parents basement drinking vodka, watching the breakfast club and masturcrying all night.

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  • Bragga
    8 years ago

    I commented that it was not normal, but i don't have a good reason for it- i am an insecure guy so i like that you like that because its good for me but i am trying so hard to not be insecure and I hate that I'm insecure and im an aries so i should be confident but im not. idk

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      no way, I'm an aries too and I'm nothing like my star sign...

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      • Bragga
        8 years ago

        I know people like that

        tbh i wish i was fine with not being like my sign but i love the description of my sign. i feel like that's wrong though

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  • Caryopteris
    8 years ago

    To start understand personalities and who is attracted to whom and why, read The Color Code by Hartmann.

    My current boyfriend is very confident and sometimes talks too much, but he's not perfect. I like guys that know they are not perfect and you can see the cracks in their veneer. Perfect people aren't very interesting. I know they aren't really perfect, but if you can't find any little flaws it is hard to make friends ad get close to the.

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  • Sweetpe
    8 years ago

    Lol I have yet to find a girl into that here mainly cause being a small town in Texas

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  • daydreamer394
    8 years ago

    Um ... what do you mean "disturbed"?

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  • green_boogers
    8 years ago

    Possibly shy guys are more of a psychological conquest.

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  • sandraasiilva
    8 years ago

    I understand what you mean, I kinda feel the same sometimes. I find them so cute. I don't know why, though.
    Maybe it's because it's more difficult to know them and get close to them.

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  • Unimportant
    8 years ago

    Unusual in our confidence-fetishistic society, but absolutely normal.

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
    8 years ago

    costanza syndrome

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    8 years ago

    Normal. Shy, quiet, introverted dudes are adorable. I have yet to find a dude like that in my area though.
    :(

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    • Philipp
      8 years ago

      It is difficult to find someone introverted and shy rightly because he is introverted and shy and he would prefer to hide himself, as I do.

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  • Short4Words
    8 years ago

    Do you enjoy being the one making the decisions in a relationship?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      I just find it cute for some reason :/

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