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I just want to kno I like this girl, nothing wrong with that but I'm 19 and she's 13, I mean6 years is a big difference, I kno she likes me and she has told me she goes for older guys and hinted that she likes me( big hints) just want to kno is it normal and what to do
Dude, she's 13 for fuck sake and for everyone who says "Oh, age is just a number" well think about this "Yeah? Jail is just room"
If you were 26 and she was 20 the age difference wouldn't be an issue. The fact is though that at 13 she is still a child and you are an adult. To even consider doing anything with this girl would be wrong. It's normal for young girls to get crushes on older guys but not normal for it to be acted upon. You need to just keep some space between you and this girl, no need to hurt her feelings but at the same time don't show anything that would be deemed to be encouragement!
I want to love you...pyt....pretty young thing...
Stop it. You're not Michael Jackson.
What bothers me most is that you posted this same thing about a month ago. You were given an answer then which was fairly unequivocal. One month later and you come back for another stab at it, as if opinions will suddenly have changed. Your seeking justification and refusal to accept no for an answer strikes me as exactly the kind of behaviour that paedophiles often employ.
If you didn't get the message last time, LEAVE THIS GIRL ALONE.
If you still don't get the message then I don't know how I'll get through to you without actually coming around there and tattooing the word "paedophile" on your forehead.
It's not right in the slightest and dappled said everything that I could have possibly said and Danny also made the best point I've ever heard.
What scares me is five people hit the yes button for it being normal, seriously, what the fuck?!
Love happens, I know. I've always liked older guys where there was a significant age difference. Still do today. Nobody can help that. You like who you like. But in your case, she's very young.
One day, the 6 year age difference isn't gonna matter. But for now, I think you should hold off for a while. At least wait until she's 17/18. 13 is still really young compared to 19, and actually just young in general. You'd be better off waiting until she's legal.
When I was 14 I was dating an 18 year old.... And why're you guys all goin on about sexual stuff? You can really like/love someone without all that stuff and maybe she's mature for her age? I do agree that he shouldn't do sexual things withthis girl but dude you can hang out and bond while you wait for her to be old enough... Talking and hugging and spending time are not illegal. You love who you love but dont let this young girl hurt herself by loving you. Be more like really close friends?
dont act on it...your 19 I think you would know more...wait till shes a bit older like 14 then ask if it's normal 13 13 is just way too young
Someone said that rape is just forced sex. While rape is illegal, so is child molestation. I know you like her, but why not looking for someone who is around your age. Let the little girl have room to grow up first.
And for the record, Michael Jackson did not touch any kid. That kid that accused him was my best friend growing up. He lied for his Mom to get money.
It says a lot about your maturity level. Do you always go for younger girls? Why? You do a lot of growing up between the ages of thirteen and nineteen, and unless you're extremely immature for your age, you will always have the upper hand in the relationship. It simply cannot be balanced or fair for her. Not to mention I'm pretty sure it's super duper illegal.