Is it normal to like guys that have girlfriends?

So I like this guy that goes to my school and
I think he likes me too because he always stares at me and makes excuses to see me. I decided to add him on facebook and he accepted but, he has a girlfriend! What's his deal? Its not like I'm meaning to like guys with girlfriends haha.

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Comments ( 38 )
  • malkiot

    I swear that someone is most attrative when unavailable. The less available they are to you, the more you want them.

    Let's just call it the 'forbidden fruit syndrome' :D

    Furthermore, your body doesn't really care whether he is available or not. He is attractive, therefore you are attracted, your feelings are not caused by you, after all.
    You do -depending on which philosophical school you subscribe to - decide whether to act upon them.

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  • LizardSkin

    He's a loser and you'll be in his current girlfriend's position soon if you pursue him.

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  • Microbug

    Scientists say 80% of women like married men so yeah

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    • suckonthis9

      Which science professionals?

      Please do not use -ists or -isms.

      Thank you.

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      • Terence_the_viking

        Fuckist.

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      • Gravy

        If you are indicating you are a statisian or anthropologist or psychologist, prove Micro-bug wrong with support. Unless someone else can provide more convincing argument and evidence, I'm going with Microbug.

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  • kingsleycrowne

    He is not faithful to his girlfriend. He wants his current relationship but variety at the same time. He is non-committal. Or perhaps his current relationship is rocky so he's already started looking around and recognized your interest. Best not to get involved it can only end in drama.

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  • lufa

    Women want taken guys because they assume he's safe and has good qualities.

    Single guys basically look like they are a part of a sex-starved leper colony.

    woe is us.

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  • dietcoke

    Sigh... I always get into the same situation which makes me think it's my fate. Well, every time when I think some guy is good and decent enough, I would also find out they already have a girlfriend. It's sad but I've never wanted to step any further other than friends.

    Just one advice, because you're a girl, don't always be the one who takes the initiatives. Those guys would know you are interested in them and feel so proud about themselves! I let the guys add me on facebook if they wish. That way I would know who likes me. Good Luck!

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  • 1000yrVampireKing

    It means you are a Whorrible person. Congratulations! Stop going after other peoples man you bitch. Have some class!

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    • IrishPotato

      Kill yourself.

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      • TheOneAndOnly:)

        lol you're terrible!:3

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        • IrishPotato

          I'm a horrible person, I know. xD

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    • surf4life

      I'm not going after anyones man? I haven't said one word to him so chill out.

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    • IrishPotato

      Even if the OP was, shut the fuck up you overdeveloped cumshot.

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      • braintrip

        HAHAHA "overdeveloped cumshot" <3

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  • RougeTheBat

    Nobody wants someone that another person doesn't already want.

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  • IrishPotato

    Frankly, I wouldn't care even the slightest if someone was taken or not.
    If you like him, go for it.

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    • TheOneAndOnly:)

      hey alex:3
      its randompopcorn, if ur wondering why i randomly messaged you..just wanted to say hi and im back:)
      -racheal

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      • IrishPotato

        OH WELCOME BACK ^^.

        Say. Racheal, would you mind staying in touch outside of IIN? I don't visit this site as often as I used to.

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  • lol1055

    everybody cheats just because he has a girlfriend or wife doesn't mean we can't fuck

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  • ucipher8

    I think its normal. Having a girlfriend probably makes him confident, same it would make you confident if you had a boyfriend. So long as you dont take it too far, because he does have a girlfriend, you could just be really good friends. Meet his girlfriend, so she dosen't think your trying to steal him away or anything

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  • redoctober

    I would suggest you let him get you pregnant. Then, please cause a lot of drama at school with his current gf and film it so it can be an IIN TV Drama.

    The show can be called 'forbidden fruit syndrome' - Thanks Malikot.

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  • Not enough information!

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  • Jeaneathean

    I always seem to be more attracted and attractive whilst in a relationship. It's an aura of confidence thing, I reckon.

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  • ProseAthlete

    It's normal to like someone, but it isn't kind or decent to act on that if the other person is involved. However, he's the real bad guy here if he's flirting heavily with you while in a relationship. You're single and can follow your heart; he's the jerk who won't sack up and part ways with his current girlfriend to be with you.

    That's assuming he's truly doing that. Are you 100 percent sure that he is into you? Looking at you, talking with you and adding you on FB aren't sure-fire indicators, especially if you're doing a little wishful thinking.

    Honestly, if he's not single, it's better to leave him the hell alone. Either you're imagining his interest and intruding on some other woman's relationship, or he's genuinely interested and is a cheating cad. Either way, who needs that?

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  • lovecrackelnails

    Hes a loser. But it is normal to like a guy with girlfriend cuz u dont like someone depending on their relaionship status!

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    • suckonthis9

      "Cuz" and "u", are not words. 'Because' and 'you' are words.

      Please do not use nonstandard word forms.

      Please do not use textese, where it does not belong.

      Thank you.

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      • lovecrackelnails

        Wtf do U care! As long as I dont write like that at school/ college/ work its perfecrly fine. Mind ur own business and if u dont like that way of writing then U write ur way and I write my way!

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        • suckonthis9

          My business is to Enlighten the world.
          I am unable to do this, if ignorant people continually use ineffectual language, thus spreading and creating a barrier to effective communication.

          Please do not use textese, where it does not belong.

          Thank you.

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  • mas0n342

    nice grammer

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    • Jeaneathean

      Grammar.

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      • mas0n342

        wow, that made me seem retarted

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        • charli.m

          *retarded.

          Keep going :P

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          • mas0n342

            god damb, thanks.

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            • suckonthis9

              This is very interesting.

              Do you know the name of the deity of the Damb?

              Is this the Damb of Markan to which you are referring?

              A damb is a type of archaeological mound (tumuli) found in Baluchistan.

              Markan:

              Those of Markan are little stonebuilt structures, which occur in groups on the hill-sides. Such hills are generally called Damba Koh by the people and are not infrequently attributed to Bahman (the Artaxerxes Longimanus). Excavations conducted by Major Mockler led to the discovery of buildings at Sutkagen Dor, a place about 40 miles to the north-west of Gwadar, which he considered to be the remains of temples or water works. The houses were built with baked bricks or stone, and a large earthen pot was unearthed in one corner, while fragments of pottery, pieces of lime, and flint knives were common everywhere. At Jiwnri and at a place called Gati, 6 miles from Gwadar, Major Mockler discovered numerous little houses, oval or square in shape, and built of stone obtained from the surface of the hills. Better specimens, however, than those at Jiwnri were seen at Damba Koh south-east of Dashtian in Persian Makran, and in them were found different kinds of earthenware vessels, clay and stone beads, grinding stones, stones for sharpening knives, a shell ring, pieces of rope pattern pottery, a lump of oxide of iron and a coin. The latter appeared to be of Greek or Bactrian origin.

              In the eleven mounds opened at Jiwnri, vessels containing bones, scraps of iron, stones for sharpening knives, copper bracelets and shell ornaments were discovered and similar finds were made at Gati. The conclusion at which Major Mockler arrived was that the places had been used for purposes of interment, the bones of the deceased being placed occasionally in an earthen pot, but more generally on the floor of the dumb. Pots containing food, weapons and sometimes a lamp, were the accompaniments of the corpse, which was apparently exposed previous to burial. In Sir Thomas Holdich's opinion the structures are possibly relics of the Dravidian races, which dispersed eastward on being ousted by the Semites from Chaldaea.

              The old mound, 2 miles west of Turbat, to which the name of Bahmani has been given by the people, from Bahman, the son of Asfandiar, the hero of the Shahnama, is apparently of the same type as that at Sutkagen Dor. It is covered with pottery, but shallow excavations made in 1903 failed to disclose anything of interest. Names from the Shahnama are again to be met within the ancient karezes (underground canals) in Kech called Kausi and Khusrawi after kings Kaus and Kai Khusrau. The latter is especially interesting in the light of the evidence afforded by the Shahnama which mentions Kai Khusrau as effecting great improvements in the agricultural conditions of the country. The Khusrawi kares is also known as Uzzai. Both are still running and their length is unknown, but while cleaning the bed of the Khusrawi karez, the local cultivators state that they have followed the channel up to the bed of the Dokurm torrent under which it passes, and found that it was roofed with slabs of flat stones supported on pillars which rested in their turn on an arch over the runningwater. Another karez of interest is one at Kalatuk called Sad-o-bad, a name which is said to be a corruption of Saadabad. According to local accounts it was excavated by one of the Arab generals Saad-bin-Ali Wiqas in the time of the Caliph Omar.

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