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Note i am a guy who has a crush on another guy. I have this friend who I want to ask out but I can't in fear of anyone finding what should I do please comment your answer. Also I have to have support for my 'short fuse' problem.
I wouldnt tell him unless you think he's gay too. Dont ruin your friendship. There's more cocks in the barn. A lot of ppl cant handle the truth.
Anyone who doesen't like guys in general is a prick.
What's there not to like about us?
It's not normal, no matter how many people say otherwise. Men and women are LITERALLY made for each other, I dont see how I can make it any clearer than that.
"LITERALLY made for each other"
How do you know they were individually manufactured for each other? Post your reason.
I'm hoping your reason doesn't involve a man made from dust and a woman made from his rib bone.
"How do you know they were individually manufactured for each other? Post your reason."
What do you mean? Where do you think babies come from? I just cant comprehend you people. There is nothing to explain, unless you are a small child that doesn't know where babies come from.
So why would there be gay people if we were made with this one base purpose in mind? Are we made imperfectly, did the designer get it wrong? It is not like homosexuality is a rarity, sounds like such a designer must be pretty incompetent if that was his goal. Would you buy a car that came from a company that built cars that only went in reverse 5% of the time?
If such a designer exists and he made us just to reproduce, he should probably come down and beg our forgiveness for his pathetic incompetence.
Though if a humans purpose is simply to have babies why would you care anyway? If we are no better than a virus as you seem to believe why care if such a virus lives or not?
Gee I'm glad I think more of humanity than you do. Get some self esteem.
DID YOU FUCKING SAY?!
"If we are no better than a virus as you seem to believe why care if such a virus lives or not?"
MY GOD, there have been terrorist murderous leaders that haven't said things that evil. My God, thats the kind of thing I hear an evil alien from outer space say when they want to destroy the earth on some sort of movie or something.
If you are a man, then marry a woman, If you are a woman, then marry a man, no matter what that satanic voice in your head says. Take that satanic voice in your head that says that person of the same sex is attractive and in your mind, take em out in the middle of the desert and BLOW EM UP WITH A NUCLEAR BOMB! Then get married and have kids. You were a kid once assuming your still not one. I wish I could just go in a time machine and brainwash your parents before they met about how good it is to think like you do and when your not born, you wont be here to try to win this pointless argument. You people and your ideals make the Grandfather Paradox possible. Who knows, maybe your future kids did do that.
So the man made of dust and the woman from a rib bone story AND common sense. Oh dear quite the improbable combination already. Such an ugly story, I'd hate to think we came from dust. It lacks all the beauty nature provides.
So only relationships which bear progeny are normal? Who is to take in the orphans and children waiting for adoption? Did you know that in some places 50% of children waiting for adoption go to gay couples. If there be a guiding force for humanity then it appears he has made a role for gay couples.
Are human relationships to you so base and loveless that their only feature is the ability to bear children? Truly you must live a dry emotionaless existence if that is what you see as the main purpose of human relationships.
It's a fucked-up world we live in, where some people fail to realise this basic fact.
LOL, yet (whether they are dead or not) you have parents, grand parents, great grand parents, great great grand parents, great great great grand parents, great great great great grand parents etc... on and on and on back to the beginning of time, whether you believe in Gods creation of Adam and Eve or in evolution of monkeys. The fact is that all of the sudden, people like you decide not to get married to the opposite sex and have babies even though your relatives and ancestors have been doing it for thousands and thousands of years and if you believe in monkey ancestors then perhaps millions of years instead of thousands which makes it worse..
See, you are right, to an extent. No, it is not NATURAL. It serves no no reproductive purpose. But it certainly is NORMAL.
See, that's what you fail to understand. You can't distinguish between what is normal, and what is natural.
But some people don't look for a relationship merely on the ability to reproduce, and some people, depending on either preference or the chemical/hormonal balances in their bodies, have a preference to the same sex as themselves.
But not everyone goes into a relationship thinking "Yup, I'm going to make babies with that, or else, I'm leaving them."
Often times, you will see a couple who either knows from the very beginning, that one of them is incapable of bearing children or is sterile. But you don't see them immediately end their relationship, do you? Do you know why that is? It's because those two people share between themselves a common bond. They love each other, and even though they are incapable of having a family, they still want to continue their relationship and share their lives with one another, do they not? And it's the same thing with gay people. They can't have kids, but they have feelings for, and care for one another.
As for them being attracted to the same gender... Take away the ability to reproduce, and the sex which comes with that reproductive purpose, and for a minute let's pretend that both those things just don't exist.
What you are left with, is a person, and their looks. So in the same way that you and I are attracted to different kinds of women, for example: I'm attracted to light skinned, brown-haired, brown-eyed females, and I am sure that you have your own preference. See, their preference for their own gender, is just another preference. Some people like skinny people, white people, black people, fat people, and some just like their own gender.
Is it really fair to sit here and judge them based on what they like, especially when you are saying that is a Satanic voice in their heads?
By the way that you stated that we "evolved from monkeys," I can tell that your understanding of science, and the theory of evolution is little to none, so I won't even begin to try and explain to you how chemicals play a role in our psychology and our sexual preferences.
Tell him frankly what you feel. The danger is the same as if it was a girl instead of a guy: your friendship may become "weird" if he doesn't reciprocate your feelings, but I would try if I were you.
Ask him out if it seems appropriate. What are you so afraid of? Are your friends and family not aware you are gay?
What's this 'short fuse' thing about? Please explain.